I voted "mutual benefit" without really thinking things through. Mutual benefit is the type of relationship I have with a favorite business, or my insurance company. I benefit them with the profits derived from my business, I benefit from them for their goods and/or services.
But mutual benefit with GOVERNMENT?!? What the f*$^ was I thinking? Must have downed one too many porters last night.
The government is there for OUR benefit, period. We are NOT here for THEIR benefit under ANY circumstances.
As for respect, sorry. I will respect the symbol of the offices held within government, and will respect those very few politicians who earn my respect. But as for government as a whole, the people are MUCH better off holding a standing suspicion toward the actions and motivations of government as a body. (and toward most of those involved in government.)
And fear? I REFUSE to fear my government. I may "fear" for what some elected officials may do, but government itself I do not and will not fear. But they had BETTER fear the people - as we are about two gnat's eyelashes away from a full blown revolt against both parties and the blind partisan crap they bring with them.
Cow to be milked? That is a problem with some who follow the entitlement philosophy. And there is no doubt some (most?) in the government view the people as cows to be milked. But, of course, that is not how it SHOULD be.
I'd have to agree with Beefy: the relationship between the people and a democratic republic form of government is not a reciprocal relationship. The way the people SHOULD view government is as a barely-controlled work horse, to be watched suspiciously and whacked as needed. And the way the government SHOULD view the people is with respect toward their master.
Man, what a full blown brain fart I had when I voted!!!