Stiletto Heels Versus Umbrellas

[Flanders]

Melania wearing stiletto heels wisely leaned on a marine:

https://media.breitbart.com/media/2019/11/AP_19329648617653.jpg
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https://www.breitbart.com/politics/...egance-in-dolce-gabbana-coat-louboutin-boots/

Obama made marines hold umbrellas for a foreigner:

Question: Which one is acceptable?