Here's what you need to get through your pretty little pinhead, dear... Not ALL women are liberals. Not ALL women believe in abortion. Very few OBJECTIVE women will find Ryan "extreme" or "radical" in his views. I agree, he doesn't stand much chance with left-wing liberal women of America, but then, I don't know of anyone Romney could have picked who would have done that, and not alienated the base entirely.
As for your confidence and optimism, I say have at it, sister! You guys go out there and hype it up! Keep spewing your rhetoric and condescending chortles, and enjoy the hell out of being arrogant and dismissive. Because on November 6, your little party will be over.