What's fucked up about taking care of yourself? That's all I think the man should do.
A man would be taking care of himself. He's not responsible for being intentionally deceived. You are literally making him responsible for something he should be considered a victim of.
And I also think that few pregnancies result from a woman intentionally deceiving a man.
Irrelevant. You brought it up, so we are now addressing those cases, rare as they might be. (and truthfully, I think the "OOOPS, i forgot birth control LOL" excuse probably comes up a lot more often that you may want to give credit for.
Not to say it doesn't happen, but the woman pays a higher price when it does.
If it's through her own purposeful deception, then tough shit. It's on her.
It's like saying a bank robber would have to pay a higher price for robbing a bank assuming he's caught, so it's actually fair"
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And speaking of deception, what about those men who use the line "baby, I love you and I'm here for you" just to get laid? Or as Mott put it in another thread, "beer goggles". Deception's a two-way street when sex is involved.
So are we agreeing both are wrong, or only one of the situations is wrong? Also your example doesn't necessarily imply pregnancy and all the problems that deviate from it.
If he took all the proper precautions how could he be deceived?
"If he didn't leave his keys in the car than how could I have stolen it? We are equally responsible."
I don't understand, unless you're saying a woman would deliberately and secretly stick a pin into the condom or something.
That, or pretending to be on birth control when you are not, are both completely immoral.
In my experience as a woman

, females generally don't try to trick a man into getting them pregnant.
Thank god for that. It probably is comparatively rare. But it's also probably more prevalent than you would give credit to.
I think women tricking men is the exception rather than the rule.
That may be so but again, when addressing that issue specifically we should focus on the context of the situation itself and not how unlikely it might be to come up