Socrtease
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What if I told you that there is one, tiny, small, easy-to-implement change in your love life that could, with luck, utterly transform your sexual relationship with your significant other?
There is... and here it is: Try out the "Buddha pose" when having sex. (The Buddha did it, and he reached enlightenment as a result.)
If you're a man, have the woman sit on your lap. If you're a woman, sit on your man's lap.
Seems like such a small thing, really. If you're a man, simply wait for the next time your woman puts her arms around your neck when you're having sex... and then simply gently rock backwards and pull her up until both of you are sitting up (see photo). (You'll be on your heels and will have to awkwardly shift your legs in front of you, not sit in the lotus position like the Buddha dude.)
There are three reasons why this is such a powerful pose, especially if you're trying to amp up a woman's orgasm. First, it brings your stomach and abdomen directly in contact with her clitoris. Jut by sticking your gut out a little, you can literally give her a massage she won't ever forget. Unlike the missionary position, this position puts your pelvic bones directly in contact. Second, it puts you deep inside her. And third, the angle is different, more upward, and she has much more control of how she moves her pelvis around.
All I can say is, when you try this position you may be really surprised. It's not all that weird and kinky, so you can try it without your partner wondering what the hell you're up to (if you're trying to subtly help her orgasm without making a big deal out of it).
There is... and here it is: Try out the "Buddha pose" when having sex. (The Buddha did it, and he reached enlightenment as a result.)
If you're a man, have the woman sit on your lap. If you're a woman, sit on your man's lap.
Seems like such a small thing, really. If you're a man, simply wait for the next time your woman puts her arms around your neck when you're having sex... and then simply gently rock backwards and pull her up until both of you are sitting up (see photo). (You'll be on your heels and will have to awkwardly shift your legs in front of you, not sit in the lotus position like the Buddha dude.)
There are three reasons why this is such a powerful pose, especially if you're trying to amp up a woman's orgasm. First, it brings your stomach and abdomen directly in contact with her clitoris. Jut by sticking your gut out a little, you can literally give her a massage she won't ever forget. Unlike the missionary position, this position puts your pelvic bones directly in contact. Second, it puts you deep inside her. And third, the angle is different, more upward, and she has much more control of how she moves her pelvis around.
All I can say is, when you try this position you may be really surprised. It's not all that weird and kinky, so you can try it without your partner wondering what the hell you're up to (if you're trying to subtly help her orgasm without making a big deal out of it).
