This isn’t a unique experience I’m sure but as an Oakland kid, going to Cal’s campus while in high school and trying to sneak into fraternity party’s to talk to college girls was a blast and great memory.
It's also a challenge.
At that young age, women are typically more mature than men the same age
so college girls aren't usually a successful target for high school guys.
I knew my wife when we were in high school,
but she was only months younger than I,
and I tended to date girls younger than that, then.
The age of consent in Massachusetts is sixteen, not eighteen as in many places.
My girlfriend when I was a college freshman was a senior in high school.
My wife, then a close friend, didn't particularly like her, in fact.
And like myself, she never got carded in bars.
That's the thing with going to college in Boston.
I wasn't really away from home.
I was always in touch with people that I already knew as well as new college friends.