Most people are like you and mind their own business when it comes to other people's finances. She's always been horribly jealous of me, my relationships, my finances, my career, pretty much everything. It frosted her cupcakes that we were able to qualify for the ACA after Mr. Owl retired as we postponed drawing from our investment accounts until he was old enough for Medicare and after his COBRA insurance ran out. I don't recall now if that was for 18 months or maybe two years. I'm older than he is so I was able to go on Medicare before he could.
At any rsate, the stalking pest still can't get over something that happened 10 years ago. Pretty sad, isn't it?