This is a question for all the progressives on this site but as always anyone can contribute. Here is the question, what will the ideal society look like when it's free of racism, and the assorted isms and phobias. (I am not writing it that way to be disrespectful but for brevity). How will we know when all of these things have been eliminated? And what will it look like?
First, I will take the bait. Please, call me stupid for that because it may be the best example to date. Be honest, regardless of what is said you are going to ignore their ideas and call them names. But I digress...
First, the ideals in our founding documents demand us to strive for what you are asking. A More Perfect Union where All Men (and dare I say women) are created equal.
Unfortunately, it is likely that those ideals are not 100% obtainable. As humans we are flawed. A country, "of the people, by the people..." is then (like all countries) will be flawed.
I don't think the goal is to create a utopia but continue to improve on those ideals. Your question suggests Conservatives don't have a similar goal. I find that disappointing and disturbing.
The hope i have is this country is better when i leave the when I arrived (birth /death). More importantly, that we also continue to have the goal to be better regarding equality. Once the goal of improvement is gone, it is game over. I say that regarding my career all the time. Once I am done wanting to get better, please force me to retire.
Personally, I don't believe the goal should be understanding. I don't understand all of it. However, I do my best to not judge and treat people the same. Your sexual orientation does not impact me so why would it change how I treat you.
Regarding racism. That simply comes from fear. As Yoda said, "Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to suffering". That is the basis of racism. Why would anyone fight for a statue of a traitor, racist, and loser?" Fear of reality causes some to defend the Confederacy.
So the ideals may not be achievable but that doesn't mean they aren't worth the effort.
Wouldn't you agree?
Sorry for the rambling. This is what drives me politically and personally.