Again you are not right, an equal analogy to banning all food would be banning all human interaction.Had I suggested banning food all together Damo, you would be correct, but I did not, I suggested banning one type of food, that a particular religous group has rules against eating.
With my solution (CIVIL UNIONS) that would be acceptable. Again, you want to paint me as some homophobic bigot who doesn't want gay people to wed, and that is absurd. I have refuted that all the way down the line, and still, you feel compelled to illustrate me as having this view. Why?
I have NO problem with gay couples having a wedding ceremony, or calling it "marriage" if that is what they want to do! My problem is with official state sanctioning of such a thing, and I have stated my reason's for that. I have presented a valid and reasonable solution to the legal problems, tax benefits, and even adoption requirements, which would enable any "civilly unionized" couple to retain the exact same rights as a traditional married couple has now, and you continue to try and twist my position into something it's not. WHY?
Is it not because you just want something to bash and trash religion and religious customs with? Is it not because you want "the issue" more than you want "the solution" in this case? Who the fuck is standing in the way of progress then? Who the fuck is denying gay couples the rights they deserve? It sure as hell isn't ME!
I've got no idea what is going on in this thread either.
Could someone just summarise briefly which poster is wanting to marry a pork chop?
Thanks.
I agree with you about what should be done legally speaking. I do not agree with you that allowing gay marriage would be violative of someone's right to freely practice there own religen.
Allowing others to do something is not prohibiting the free exersize of religen, unless your reliegn requires you to be an authoritarian over others.
And? This again has nothing to do with the topic at hand which was a poor attempt to analogize pork and marriage and the banning of pork entirely being the same thing as banning all marriage.First of all, gay marriage did exist in California. Then they banned it. They didn't leave it up to the religions. They made a constitutional amendment prohibiting homosexuals to marry, effectively banning a practice and stripping religions from being able to have their unions recognized by the state.
I'm glad you agree with me. The whole point of my solution is to resolve the issue without regard for what mine or your personal beliefs are. You don't have to agree with me about violation of religious practice, but passing a law to directly contradict a religious practice, is abridging the right to practice it freely. Examples I gave in analogy are; Passing a law that says pork products can be called 'kosher' if the producer wants to, or passing a law banning the display of crosses in public as 'hate symbols'. Neither of these laws would prohibit anyone from "practicing their religion" in a literal sense, but both, like 'gay marriage' are a direct assault on the established practices and customs of religion. This is precisely why the 'religious right' is opposed to 'gay marriage' and will not change their opinion on the subject.
The beauty of my solution is, they don't have to, and neither do you. It's not relevant if you understand my point about infringing on religion, just as it's not relevant that religious people feel they are being infringed upon. Civil Unions, removing "marriage" from the sanction of government altogether, takes care of that. It's no longer a part of the debate, and the issue is resolved.
And? This again has nothing to do with the topic at hand which was a poor attempt to analogize pork and marriage and the banning of pork entirely being the same thing as banning all marriage.
Do you understand? This is about banning all marriage, not just gay marriage. Either take reading comprehension courses, or stop talking.
You and I agree, banning gay marriage is a bad thing. But it does not equate to banning all marriage in any way.
The topic that started all of this was simply taking marriage out of the government's power altogether and leaving it to the churches. Hence "banning" the government from defining marriage. This would be more effectively like a First Amendment type of a law banning the government from making laws respecting marriage at all. Let them make contracts, but get them out of defining our religions and their practices.
Stop relating every topic to this one personal situation, it doesn't make for good conversation nor does it advance the topic at hand.
With my solution (CIVIL UNIONS) that would be acceptable. Again, you want to paint me as some homophobic bigot who doesn't want gay people to wed, and that is absurd. I have refuted that all the way down the line, and still, you feel compelled to illustrate me as having this view. Why?
I have NO problem with gay couples having a wedding ceremony, or calling it "marriage" if that is what they want to do! My problem is with official state sanctioning of such a thing, and I have stated my reason's for that. I have presented a valid and reasonable solution to the legal problems, tax benefits, and even adoption requirements, which would enable any "civilly unionized" couple to retain the exact same rights as a traditional married couple has now, and you continue to try and twist my position into something it's not. WHY?
Is it not because you just want something to bash and trash religion and religious customs with? Is it not because you want "the issue" more than you want "the solution" in this case? Who the fuck is standing in the way of progress then? Who the fuck is denying gay couples the rights they deserve? It sure as hell isn't ME!
Again, you are talking about banning it (pork) for everybody, not for a certain group.Again, I am talking about banning a certian type of food because it offends a religous group. Just like banning a certian type of marriage because it offends a certian religous group. Sure you can take the analogy and expand it so it does not fit, but for my limited purpose it works. All I am saying with teh analogy is that by banning gay marriage you are trying to impose your will on another person's belife system. There are religous groups that feel gay marriage is a perfectly acceptable way to organize your life, and is an accepted form of marriage.
How would banning this practice be anything but prohibiting there ability to freely exersize there religen? Dixie on the other hand said that not banning gay marriage infringes on some religen's ability to freely exersize there religen, I dont see how. Unless it is part of the religen to practice authoritarian dominance over others religous belifes.
Again, you are talking about banning it (pork) for everybody, not for a certain group.
It's silly and the analogy fails because of this.
Nobody at all spoke of denying marriage to everybody wholesale, at all, anywhere. Denying pork to everybody wholesale is not analogous to denying one small group something however much you disagree with the ban.
Pork = Marriage in your analogy, you stated so. Nobody has ever argued to disallow all marriage. Therefore the analogy fails miserably as it is misapplied.
Again, you are talking about banning it (pork) for everybody, not for a certain group.
It's silly and the analogy fails because of this.
Nobody at all spoke of denying marriage to everybody wholesale, at all, anywhere. Denying pork to everybody wholesale is not analogous to denying one small group something however much you disagree with the ban.
Pork = Marriage in your analogy, you stated so. Nobody has ever argued to disallow all marriage. Therefore the analogy fails miserably as it is misapplied.
I can see what you are trying, however if the government sanctioned the consumption of pork for some but denied it for others then you would have an analogy that worked.No they are banning Gay Marriage for everyone. When you ban pork, you are banning it even for those who dont like pork. It is still banned.
I can see what you are trying, however if the government sanctioned the consumption of pork for some but denied it for others then you would have an analogy that worked.
Instead you are trying to make a blanket ban match up with one that is not.
You said that pork, in your instance, equated to marriage. You did not say it equated to solely homosexual marriage.
Nobody is talking about banning all marriage. Because you thought you were "clever" you make your analogy too broad and then attempt to argue a way that made it fit.
If you argue this way for your clients I can see why you believe you will lose trials.
Nobody has argued that all marriage should be banned. In the thread where your sudden "epiphany of cleverness" came upon you, they were arguing against the government having any involvement, not of making it illegal.
do you support incest marriage?
Go back and study the origional thread, I agree the government should get out of the business of marriage all together. I was argueing that to ban gay marriage, because allowing it was an unconsitutional restriction on someones right to practice there religen, was absurd. In fact the truth is opposit. It is akin to saying that allowing people to eat pork is an unconstitutional restrction on the rights of Jews.
Again, you are talking about banning it (pork) for everybody, not for a certain group.
It's silly and the analogy fails because of this.
Nobody at all spoke of denying marriage to everybody wholesale, at all, anywhere. Denying pork to everybody wholesale is not analogous to denying one small group something however much you disagree with the ban.
Pork = Marriage in your analogy, you stated so. Nobody has ever argued to disallow all marriage. Therefore the analogy fails miserably as it is misapplied.