how did this turn into an attack young people/grind thread? assholes . . .
Grind this is not an attack its a fact.
When they ask people of different ages how they see their lives they are much less likely to be happy at your age.
Its not your fault and you are not really doing anything wrong. You are just living the stage of your life that you are in. I would never go back to being that age if I could unless I knew all that I know now. It was a very hard age.
Yeah you are in the best health in your life but you dont even realize what that means because most have never been sick enough to appreciate it. You are dragging arround whatever bullshit your parents left on your head OR you are desperately trying to live up to their good works. Your broke and trying to find that special someone and getting your heart broken and having "friends" screw you.
It took me years to realize being nice gets you nothing in return and being an asshole gets you even less. Its a tuff life and you act as decent person and be kind for your self as much as for anyone around you. You can intellectualize this shit but to know it in your soul and to enternalize it so that when you get screwed by someone you have been kind to you can just go " oh well there is another lost soul and they are going to reap what they sow but never be arround me again" with out burning your energy feeling all kinds of anger and strife about it.
Its tuff being young and that is not your fault. Young guys are not "good for nothing" they are just not good for anything a young woman needs intheir lives until they are about 25. Yes there are exceptions but most are just not ready for a real relationship as early as most women are. That is why women and men tend to pair off in couples where the woman is a couple of years younger than the man.
Its life , its nature and age helps give you the perspective to see it.
We love our little Grind here and cant wait to watch you mature.
