Kathianne, I will not argue that McCain has run a totally incompetent campaign. He should be leading Obama by 20 points, and could have been, if he had done things differently. Obama's campaign has consistently tied McCain to his 'association' with Bush, although McCain was often opposed to Bush policies, and was one of the biggest thorns in Bush's side the past 8 years... in fact, he was the Liberals favorite Republican for a long time. McCain was reluctant to tie Obama to his 'associations' with Ayers, etc., and when he finally did, he caught a little flack over it, and dropped it. McCain's biggest problem is, he doesn't know how to fight-- he can't take a punch. It's not in his nature, he is the 'great compromiser' ...the one who is always reaching across the aisle and trying to make peace. Perhaps it stems from his days as a POW, but it seems he doesn't have any 'fight' in him, he simply folds and gives in. It's hard to beat the Democrats like that.
I posted a thread recently, chronicling what I felt was McCain's 5 Critical Mistakes, and among them was his postponing the campaign (and convention... and almost the debate) I think it was stupid beyond belief to think this would gain him ANY points in such a tight race. As you said, it came across poorly, but it also cost him precious campaign time... the time he should have been pounding Obama on his background and record. In the past few weeks, he seems to have picked up the tempo a bit, but it may just be too little too late. He also completely wasted his 'ace in the hole' Palin, just threw that trump card away trying to cater to the left-wing media. He let Charlie Gibson and Katie Couric 'define' Palin to the electorate... STUPID, STUPID, STU-PID!
I still don't buy the poll numbers. I honestly think they are way off, and this is a closer race than anyone imagines. We'll know soon. My concern at this point, is voter discouragement, people thinking McCain is going to lose, so why bother voting for him. It's one of the motivations the left may have in orchestrating some shenanigans with the pollsters, to portray Obama with this big insurmountable lead, to discourage McCain supporters. It's not like it hasn't happened before, when Clinton defeated Bush Sr., he was WAY up in the polls, he barely won the election, had less than 50% of the vote!