If there is:
boy-girl : I can say 'the' boy, we all know who I am talking about
girl-boy : I can say 'the' boy, again we all know who I am talking about
boy-boy : I can NOT say 'the' boy as you do NOT know which one I am talking about
Super, you're a very reasonable guy, I've asked a similar question to Damo and now to you:
"Do you really believe that out of all the hundreds or thousands of professors and thousands or tens of thousands of students that have used that well known example, they all missed something you didn't?"
To pretend that the preposition somehow voids the math is ridiculous.
This is the same stupidity Marilyn Mach put forth.
Go look at how many professors and others disagreed with the 'logic' used.
A preposition does not change MATH.
I could just as easily say... 'well what if I said the older boy... then you would know whom I am talking about and thus the math changes'... which would be just as moronic. It doesn't change the probability.
In the case of the TWO boys, you do NOT know whether the 'known' boy is the older or the younger. So you still have two sets of data there as well.
Again, if ONE of the TWO is fixed.... then it is a moot point. Because it matters not if you have...
boy boy
boy girl
as the TWO options or
boy1 boy2
boy2 boy1
boy1 girl2
girl1 boy2
as the FOUR options. You still end up with 50/50.
Also, the reason I asked for you a long time ago to provide the 'survey', is because it matters how it was conducted. Did Mach take a random sample of the population and then delete all but the 18000 that met her criteria? Or did she simply say... come to my site if you meet these criteria and tell me where you fit in? Or did she do something else? It matters Dano.
Look at it this way...
According to you there are only three options
Boy boy
boy girl
girl boy
Now take the exact same problem and substitute the known to a girl.... by your logic then there would be three possibilities
Girl girl
Girl boy
boy girl
So the population of two kids would have six outcomes
boy boy
boy girl
girl boy
girl girl
girl boy
boy girl
So you have
1/6 boy boy
1/3 boy girl
1/3 girl boy
1/6 girl girl
So two thirds of all families with two children have one of each?
That would defy statistical probability.