I have never sugggested one should go without so someone else can have it. I don't know where you got that idea from?
Then by definition, you are putting your wants and needs above someone else's and by your standard, that makes you greedy. It isn't up to anyone else to decide what someone needs or wants. That is central planning, and I would think history has taught us that it is a failure.
Why? Why should you help and others not? And who are the others who don't want to help? Only those who can afford to do so are asked so those who object must do so out of greed and not out of need. Why would you support the right to greed while watching your neighbor in need? Is that your definition of morality?
It is called freedom. Ever hear of it? You are essentially saying you don't believe in freedom and your are justifying tyranny. How do you know what people can afford or can't afford? Like I said, if someone can help and doesn't that is their issue to reconcile. It is not up to me to say, "Hey, I think you should do more so I am going to steal from you". In your view, two wrongs make a right. You are still stealing someone else's property. That you use the force and will of the government through a majority vote makes it no less vile and despicable. That is why the founding fathers abhorred direct democracy. They saw it for what it is; tyranny of the majority
No, I don't. What does your neighbor having an abortion have to do with you?
My neighbor having an abortion has nothing to do with me personally just as my neighbor getting raped has nothing to do with me personally. My neighbor starving has nothing to do with me personally. I will still eat. However, my neighbor being raped and killing an unborn baby has to do with infringing on the rights of another human being and at a bare minimum that is what government should do. Protect the rights to life, liberty and the PURSUIT of happiness.
It's human nature to want to better ones self, to make a comfortable life. By helping your neighbor it will keep their spirit alive, their enthusiasm, their mental well-being. That, in turn, will result in them being less stressed, more determined to get a job instead of falling into depression. That, in turn, helps you. They will be more energetic. They will look after their home. They will try harder to meet their mortgage payments because they will have hope. At least their family will be fed. They can concentrate on getting a job.
Everyone benefits. Their children will do better in school.
While it can be considered moral to help it's also logical. That's the point. There are concrete rewards.