Does Everyone Have The Nerve To Shoot a Gun?

according to zappa, that's just being a bully. using your fists, though, is quite manly and never considered bullying.


Guess he wants the young ladys to duke it out with their abusers......

When the comedian says....I carry a gun because a cop is too heavy....its not just kinda funny....its something to give serious consideration to....
 
Maybe you should ask SF.

He's the one condoning the kidnapping of that woman against HER OWN WISHES.

What if Howey tried to remove her from the house and she had him arrested for Kidnapping?

Going by her track record, all Howey would have to do is bitch slap her a couple of times before the cops show up and she won't press charges.
 
Maybe you should ask SF.

He's the one condoning the kidnapping of that woman against HER OWN WISHES.

What if Howey tried to remove her from the house and she had him arrested for Kidnapping?

LMAO... where the hell do you see me condoning kidnapping her? Let me guess, this is more of your 'honest' discussion technique?
 
I find it difficult to accept that sitting back and basically doing nothing is the best course of option but if that really is the case then so be it. I don't have a female best friend other than my wife so I don't know what that's like. But if my brother-in-law were beating on my sister I wouldn't sit back and take it. Not because I think I'm some tough guy but because I'm not going to watch some guy beat on my sister.

exactly... Kidnapping her is not the best option, but it is a better option than leaving her in a situation where I fear she will be killed. The other option is ensuring the guy doesn't touch her again. If I go to jail for that, so be it. Still better than her being dead.
 
I also think some women may hide this from men in their lives. I can't imagine i would tell my brothers. I don't want them to end up in prison. I can see trying to hide it out of fear of the subsequent confrontation/action. I've never been a DV victim, but I can definitely relate to hiding that from your brother. There are things women never tell men. It's just how it is.

I think many do, my sister did... for years. She lived in a different part of the country and kept it from us. It wasn't until she moved back to my hometown that it became evident. Then it ended. As for your brothers... trust me... with three sisters and five nieces... I would rather be in jail... my guess is so would they.
 
I can only imagine what happens on a typical Friday in that house.

Husband comes home drunk beats the wife
Neighbors call the cops
Cops show up and see her with marks and bruises and arrest him for domestic abuse.
She goes down to the jail the following day and bails him out, does not files charges because she loves him.

Calls Howey to ask for help and he says sorry, I don't want to get involved.

If only half of that were true in that (as of right now) they're not married, the neighbors didn't call the cops, he hasn't been arrested, and Howey did get involved. In fact, Howey and jb were the only two people who got involved.

Your track record at being woefully wrong is incrediblly high. It's a shame your IQ isn't.
 
Howey, Superfreak and Cawacko are very lucky to never have had a friend or family member involved in domestic violence. It is a horrible situations for the abused and their friends and family. There are times when nothing anyone does can save them, other than killing the abuser. Then the victim had better make absolutely sure this was their only recourse because there are a lot of people in jail for shooting their abusers.

Especially here in the man-friendly courts of Florida.
 
My sisters did. Unfortunately my sister is now helping to hide the douche bag that has beaten on my niece. After everything she went through, I can't understand her thinking... she is going right back to the same 'he won't do it again' line of crap that she used with her ex.

So why aren't you doing anything there, macho man? I thought you were soooooo butch! Go confront him. Kidnap her. Shoot him! C'mon now big boy, show him your big muscles and two inch dick!
 
who cares? he could have easily wacked her with a lamp or vase or any other blunt object. So now we are going to ban guns to prevent pistol whipping and assume this is going to prevent head injuries now? do you just exhale dumbness?


Funny thing is the cops actually paid attention when I told them that. Guess your'e wrong too, bud. Oh. Did I say we should ban guns because of the above? Nah...
 
Sure thing there macho man. I'd rather you be in jail too.
IF she is killed by this moron using a knife, baseball bat, or runs her over with a car in his rage, are you still going to sit here and cry about gun control failure not being able to save her? or will you end up kicking yourself in the ass everyday wondering if there is something else you could have done?
 
Unless she is willing to help herself, all Howey can do is risk being arrested for kidnapping or risk getting her beaten worse.

If someone else confronts the abuser he will be humiliated. If she doesn't leave he will take it out on her. Unless she is willing to at least accept the help, nothing anyone does (short of murdering the abuser) will help her.


BINGO.
 
So why aren't you doing anything there, macho man? I thought you were soooooo butch! Go confront him. Kidnap her. Shoot him! C'mon now big boy, show him your big muscles and two inch dick!

Because he conveniently is gone every time I am in town. Because my sister won't give up the address of where she lives.
 
Seems you hit a nerve there, SF.....the pussy will cry at her murder by this scumbag and convince himself that
he did everything he could......he could at least try hitting the scumbag with his purse or something.

Funny shit there troll. Another tough guy who'd probably run quicker than SF. Hell, neither one of you are man enough to even keep a woman.


But seriously, the women needs help, counseling to inform her what options she has available to her....there is help out there.

There used to be Victim's counseling. Unfortunately, our state cut out the funds for it. Damn shame. Huh?
 
according to zappa, that's just being a bully. using your fists, though, is quite manly and never considered bullying.


You've taken what I said and completely mis-characterized it...which isn't surprising considering the lack of honesty in the vast majority of your posts here.
 
This is just one of those things where men are from mars and women are from venus. I can't imagine a guy just having someone beat the shit out of him, throwing plates at them, getting pummeled and being like "Derrrrr i think I will keep staying, it's not that bad"

I literally can't compute it in my head.

I mean, ok, power dynamics of relationships with women and men might make women more afraid of their partner, but that doesn't explain the cognitive dissonance of actually believing everything will be fine, or that the abuse was a "one time thing" or that it was actually your fault. I also think I would have a hard time believing if the numbers would be the same for gay couples. Maybe I am wrong though.

Secondly, fight or flight is pretty much evolutionarily coded into our brains. If it gets to the point where you are derping around and getting the shit beat out of you repeatedly and you still have to wait for the "right time" to leave "when you're ready", then you have something seriously fucked up in your head and you are no longer capable of making rational decisions. Letting someone that isn't able to fully tap into their survival instincts try to come to a rational decision on "eventually" leaving their abuser seems like a recipe for disaster.
 
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