You don't get it though Cawacko, seriously now. Ok, I'm going to tell this very true story to explain and then maybe you will.
When I was in my 20's I worked at this place and we had a merger, and two new guys started. One of them I just stared at when we first met; he was that physically gorgeous. The other one, Ed, used to come up to me, and I'd stare at him quizzically; I kept forgetting I had met him! He was so bland looking. Later, we would laugh about that.
Within a month, I could literally not remember how I ever thought that the first one, Steve was remotely good looking. All of a sudden his features seemed ugly. He was a huge prick. But Ed, was still to this day, the funniest man I have ever met. He would have me just rolling. And I became very attracted to him.
It doesn't leave out personality. Someone's personality can literally change how you view their physical appearance. It just can.