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USFREEDOM911 said:
So you would have no problem with your wife/girlfriend having sex with other men??
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Not if it was discreet. What a man does not know will not hurt him. The same goes for women. A man can have a long term affair that no one knows about and there will be no effects on the family life.
 
סּ_סּ;530104 said:
If i ever do it I'll of course lie to her. What she doesn't know can't hurt her. It's not my fault her and most of society isn't accepting of nature.
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And if you discover she was lying to you and getting a little "something-somethng" on the side, you would stay with her.
 
ZappasGuitar said:
Don't mistake the point of my post. If Dave cheated on his bride after their marriage, then that is sad and pathetic. Actually WHENEVER he cheated on her he was a cad.

IF however, his affairs were 10 years ago, he later told his future wife about them and his wife and he agreed to put the affairs behind them when they exchanged their vows, then his affairs are a private matter and none of our business.

My original post was only meant to point out how I KNEW WITHIN SECONDS of watching Dave make his admissions last night that I'd be reading another sanctimonious, holier-than-thou series of posts from ID and disloyal.

As far as I can tell, a timeline hasn't been issued yet, so any judgements made before all the facts are in are premature, something both women have lambasted others for doing.
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And of course, you NEVER EVER saw a liberal doing this, with anything that had to do with a Republican.

You are the hypocrite who tries to appear "sanctimonious, holier-than-thou".
You're post just provided more proof of that.
Thanks, twinkie boy. :cof1:
 
Ice Dancer said:
That you spend time off these boards thinking about Loyal or I is more than a little disturbing disturbing and it is totally pathetic..get a life dude

I have criticized every cheating bastard that puts his shit out in the public, his or her politics is besides the point. Letterman is a lecherous cad and you are a fat asshole...both quite true it just so happens you are both libtards :p
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I wonder if his wife knows about his apparent obsession with you and Loyal?? :eek:
 
סּ_סּ;530129 said:
woman just will never understand. They just don't have the same sexual urges men do. So to judge men by a women's standards is wrong.
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If you think that woman don't have the same sexual urges that men have, you are desperately in need of some help. :cof1:
 
Socrtease said:
Fidelity is not consistent with the male biological imperitive. Only 50k years ago men coupled with many different women. Some men had many because they put meat on the table and protected their mates and their stuff better than others. Women are genetically driven to chose the best provider for their children. Until very recently, about the last 8 or 5k years men all had more than one mate. Monogamy is not natural. It may become natural somewhere along the way, but hundreds of thousands, if not millions of men provide very well for their families and have sexual relationships on the side. Sex doesn't mean much for men outside of the physical aspect. Men can have sex with many women at once and not love any of them. Love and sex are not synonomous nor does one require the other. You may not like that fact but it is true.
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You are wise!
 
Damocles said:
He didn't cheat on me, so I really don't care. As far as I understand it this happened before he was married even. Scandal? M'eh.

As scandals go this is slim pickings. He did the right thing and will likely put some slime in prison.
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That will depend on whether any of the woman bring a sexual harrassment suit against him.
 
tom prendergast said:
That's not very Christian of you, now is it?
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She deteriorates more as time goes by and gets further and further away from it. I notice it isn't anything she has tried to pass herself off as, here! Talk about re-inventing ones self! Remember how she was back when she first started on the message boards...so pure! so godly! and look at her now! a mouth a sailor would be proud of!!!! I wonder if she ever acts like this around her friends and family!?
 
Socrtease said:
Not if it was discreet. What a man does not know will not hurt him. The same goes for women. A man can have a long term affair that no one knows about and there will be no effects on the family life.
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The question was to grind; but it appears that you feel the only time anyone is hurt, is when they find out!!
 
USFREEDOM911 said:
So as long as you don't know about it; Bud can have as much sex as he wants, when he's on the road??
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If he choose to do such, but Bud isn't like that, so no worry!!!!! We would probably sit down and have a discussion as to why he is feeling to need to go elsewhere for his fulfillment!
 
froggie said:
If he choose to do such, but Bud isn't like that, so no worry!!!!! We would probably sit down and have a discussion as to why he is feeling to need to go elsewhere for his fulfillment!
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I didn't ask you about "what" he was like, or "why" he would feel that way.

I asked you if it was OK, that was all.
 
froggie said:
I have to agree, and if the woman goes into a relationship with a cheating boyfriend and marries him, honey, you made your bed, lay in it! any woman who thinks they will change a man is truly dreaming.
I knew Bud was true blue, this is the reason I married him! It was important to me and him, for us both, to be monogamous.
I have almost never seen a relationship last that was started with cheating, either! No trust there on either side!
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Well said, froggie. Same here.
 
סּ_סּ;530074 said:
he's human and wanting sex is natural. Doesn't mean he loves his wife any less just cause he wants some fun on the side. I think people have to let go of this whole notion of "marry and only have sex with one person for the rest of your life." It's not natural. It's old outdated religious and societal ritual.

Why can't you love your wife and have casual sex with someone else?
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Because lying and deception is a sure fire way to destroy any relationship.

If a dude wants doesn't want to be monogamous, he should be upfront about that and let the woman have the choice to decide from the beginning if she's game for an open relationship.
 
USFREEDOM911 said:
I wonder if his wife knows about his apparent obsession with you and Loyal?? :eek:
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Seriously, the only people I think about from these boards when I am off line is Loyal and TuTu because we have a friendship that is outside of these boards...not that we don't think about you from time to time Free...:p

I don't spend time alone thinking about fat assed bastards like zap that's for sure.
 
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