Having lived a fair amount of time in a large city (Toronto), I've seen some transgender people in person and I also lived in the same apartment building as someone who apparently was -both- sexes (that is, they could both get pregnant and impregnate and did so), but nothing other than that outside of tv/internet as far as I know.
In any case, the examples I brought up in post #70 are real. The fact that I never met them doesn't change that fact.
J. K. Rowling was first verbally attacked by the Religious Christian Conservative White people that accused her of witchcraft and everything under the sun for the story material of her children's books. I witnessed the same thing happen, when the same people misunderstood a comment made by John Lennon about the Beatles being more popular than Jesus. And then the Christians and Church Leaders scheduled Beatles Record Bon-fires to protest the Beatles. The very same people that scheduled her Books to be thrown in the Bonfires- but just a different generation.
She did not ask for that, and neither did the Beatles, nor did either do anything really to deserve that kind of hatred expressed towards them.
And I do not really see anything that she said referring to Trans people that should upset Trans people. BUT, It's her reputation that she has to take some responsibility for. Have you ever heard the phrase- SOME THINGS ARE JUST BETTER LEFT UNSAID?
When you become a public figure, and when it comes to LGBTQ issues, I believe it is best to just stay out of the argument, if something you have to say may offend them. I mean unless you like to be criticized by them.
Hollywood has Blackballed it's own actors and movie people for many years, for taking sides in Political or Religious arguments or with Gay or Sexual issues, adulterous affairs, and every kind of scandal you can imagine. Actors get blackballed, and so do directors for just starring in, or directing movies that have LGBTQ issues in them.
Sometimes it has helped their careers, while for others, it sunk their careers.
I am not saying this is the way it should or should not be, I am just stating this is the world we live in.
And if you are lucky enough to become a public figure in this world, but your success depends upon a fandom base, BE VERY CAREFUL ABOUT WHAT YOU SAY when talking about Politics, Religion, or sexually based topic matters. Because once something's said, there is no un-hearing it. My parents raised me to either say something positive about the ones you are speaking of- OR SAY NOTHING AT ALL!
I mean why risk chasing away your fan base, and drawing bad press, for saying something that some people would consider as controversial comments?
I mean, if I were a comedian, and my theme was making fun of women in my act, I would not expect that women would be my favorite fans.
So, she basically opened up her mouth, and inserted her foot, and it cost her her reputation and future success- WHEN SHE SHOULD HAVE JUST USED A LITTLE RESTRAINT and not said anything about the LGBTQ.
I may not agree with why she is being Blackballed, but it's her reputation at stake- NOT MINE.