All i'm saying is that what you suggest hasn't happened (to my knowledge anyway) in the UK, or Australia, or anywhere else where civil partnerships have the full force of the law behind them and homosexuals are permitted to join the military.
There are loads of welfare benefits people could get by indulging in a civil partnership over here but either people just don't seem to realise this, the stigma of marrying another chap is still too great or people are just too honest.
(although now you've suggested it i'm seriously considering marrying my mate, Mike

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