This is not about those who take advantage of the various assistance programs. It is about the system of assistance programs taking advantage of the people it supposedly serves. It's the reason someone making $X/mo income can get $300 in food stamps, but someone making ($X+100)/mo can only get $150, and someone making (X+200)/mo is completely disqualified. And even when these disparities are (supposedly) addressed, they keep assistance programs separate: housing separate from food separate from education. Make an extra $100/mo and lose $150 in food assistance, $200 in housing assistance, and $100 in education assistance. So what do people do? Sit at home those extra 10 hours/week they could be working, thus keeping their extra assistance, and blame big business (Prompted by democratic rhetoric) that those extra 10 hours work don't result in $500/mo instead of a measly $100.
The programs are NOT a hand "up". Nor are they as simple as a hand out. They are designed as a deliberate trap to create a dependency on government that is difficult to break, and sweeten the pot by offering more programs of the same type. They take advantage of problems such as the economic disparity caused racism of the 50s and before, and, quite literally, USE the people who have need of assistance to build their power. THAT is how the democratic party builds their voting base.
Then they use fear mongering and outright lies ("The big bad republicans are going to cut you off!" "The big bad republicans don't like your skin color!" "The big bad republicans want to bring back slavery!") to KEEP their voting base.
The fact is, success, which in turn would lead to economic independence, is the LAST thing the democrats want for us. No, they want us dependent on government, giving those who control government power over our lives, even as they proclaim to protect our freedoms.
It's the reason we see the race card played constantly - fear mongering. It's the reason they promote racism in government policy under the guise of "leveling the playing field". (Tell me, why do poor Blacks, Hispanics, and/or Native Americans need more assistance programs than equally poor whites?)