I'll tell you, only democrats have yet to try to tell me that my wife has less value because of her career choice. I've been told that she "had it easy" because we aren't poor, but then I've been told that I am "putting on airs" because we aren't rich. I've been told that other people "just don't have that option".
Almost nothing I have heard from Democrats in regard to our choice (yeah we made it together and stuff) to have one of us stay at home (whomever was making less at the time, and believe me it was close, had I not been promoted close to birth I would be the on scene parent).
They say they value her, but their actions and what they do denies that. While, contrariwise, from republicans I have only heard support for my wife, an understanding that it has value.
I say that because of what I experience, both here and in my life. Democrats do not value my wife, they hold only scorn for choosing to hold a traditional role. Often they believe that I somehow "forced" her to make this choice. She's told me that some people have approached her to advocate she "stop doing what he says" and return to work... They do not even believe she may have chosen this and that together we believe it is valuable.