I would like to address this part without completely jumping into the fray of the other 20 somewhat wierd points. I had a conversation with a lady at church the other day about this. First, let me throw the "white" out of the sentence...I know that was part of the original sentiment but it has no bearing on what I want to say.
Let me preface this by saying that I use the term "christian" in the looser sense of it's definition. While it may seem ridiculous, and may well be ridiculous, let me try to expound on why some folks (like Granule and many folks I counsel with) feel the way they do. While I can't speak for Granule, there is this overwhelming feeling among many conservative christians that the life and country they grew up in is changing....and it is. Folks can argue whether the change is for the better or not but the fact is that the (religious) demographics of this country are changing with the number of christians shrinking every year. That scares a lot of christian people. When they realize that in x-number of years they won't be the majority it is really sobering to them. Then take a candidate like Santorum. When all you hear on the news is that a candidate Santorum cannot win in the battle ground states because he is too socially conservative (not that he has allowed that to influence his voting on several issues), that further worries many christian people about the direction of the country. From what I can see between him and Mr. Romney, there is not much difference between them on fiscal issues. Both of them have been persuaded to be more liberal than I think either would like in some areas of their governance. Romney on healthcare and Santorum on earmarks and bailouts. But I digress. My point is that I can see why some christians are feeling the pressure. Their world is changing and it scares them. The "educated elite" have mostly always looked down on them but christians usually had them significantly outnumbered. Ain't going to be that way in the future should the trends continue. Like I say, one can argue that this is all for the better but I most definitely can understand the way they feel whether I think it is right or wrong.
Now I need to further say something on the Santorum/conservative/republican unpopularity. Them getting involved in the birth control aspect of things is stupid, and it is killing any small chance they might have had. Why in the world would they want to do that? To appease the Catholics? That's all I can see, but it was a bone-headed move on their part and they should have stayed away from it like they would have stayed away from a land mine. But even before all that mess, the news media was saying what I said about Santorum above.
You are far too reasonable

So, what do you tell them when you counsel them?
How does one deal with a world that is rejecting the literal meaning of the Bible?