One could say that pregnancy is also completely unfair and unequal-
One could say that life in general is also completely unfair and unequal.
all a man does is create sperm and then inject a bit into a woman during sex.
A "pump and dump" man sounds like a very shitty man to me.
Once pregnancy begins, it's the woman who bears the burden of pregnancy single handedly.
See above. If the man is nowhere to be found during this period of time, then he is a very shitty man. A decent man would stick around to support the woman (both physically and emotionally) during that period of time.
And yes, the aforementioned works out SOOOO MUCH better whenever the man and the woman are already married ("joined together as one body") and are already desiring children (which stems from the in-principle ability to procreate and is not only a visible display of marriage's fruitfulness but is also a visible signification of how the "two bodies" have "joined together as one").
Now, for a woman who wants to have a child, that can be great- difficult sometimes, but still great.
No, it's not great for the man to "pump and dump". He should be there to support his wife (via providing for her physical and emotional needs during that time). Again, this is much easier to do whenever the man and the woman are already married and are already desiring to have a child.
This is not the case for a woman who -doesn't- want to have a child.
A woman who doesn't want to have a child shouldn't be having any sex in the first place. This is a deviation from God's design for both sex and marriage, and such careless/sinful behavior only brings about destruction (STDs, abortions, etc).
The proper "order of operations" is: dating > desire to join together as "one" > marriage > desire to have children > sex > procreation (ideal result) --- This (instead of destruction) brings about fruit (e.g. children).
Anyway, a man has the option of giving a woman his sperm or not.
And likewise, a woman has the option of receiving his sperm or not.
If he gives her his sperm, that's what I'd call the handoff of responsibility, in the sense that it's now up to the woman what she intends to do with it if she becomes pregnant.
This is such a disgusting way to look at it. There shouldn't be any "handoff of responsibility". Any man who "pumps and dumps" is a complete and utter piece of shit (and any woman who contracts the killing of her child for convenience purposes is likewise a complete and utter piece of shit). This is also why marriage BEFORE sex is an absolutely vital part of God's design for both marriage and sex.
Under God's design, a man and a woman are "joined together as ONE body" (marriage). They are both UNIFIED in spirit/will (just as Jesus is married to his Church). Thus, there is NO "handoff of responsibility". While the woman has the specific responsibility of caring for the child who is inside of her womb, the man has the specific responsibility of caring (both physically and emotionally) for the woman who is carrying his child inside of her. They are both UNIFIED, going through the childbirth process TOGETHER as ONE (each with different responsibilities/roles).
