ok, i can sorta see that. the basic premise is that yes, states have power to do certain things in order for the good of society, but those are always offset by the level of scrutiny provided to whatever right that is. In almost every case though, if there is a federally protected right, a state law is subject to scrutiny by the federal courts to determine if the law oversteps it's authority in restricting a federally protected right or a law is too vague in determining it's compelling government interest.
You should have never given in to his semantic bullshit.