Maybe you should look the word up
It doesn’t mean what you claim it means
I am a firm believer that all people follow the Hedonistic Calculus of Bentham. Not that everyone wants to live like Caligula, but rather everyone seeks to minimize their pain and maximize their happiness.
To that end I am of the opinion that altruism doesn't exist per se.
If someone does something for another person that is purely altruistic they would have to be doing it because they WANTED to do it and therefore they felt it was something that would increase their happiness
An example: a soldier throws himself on a grenade. He does this out of love for his compatriots and he wants to see them survive. Which means he is acting according to the Hedonistic Calculus in that he will be happy if they survive.
The only way an action can be truly altruistic would be if the person doing it did NOT WANT TO DO IT and sees no value to the action that might make them happy in some way or decrease their discomfort.
If the person doing the altruistic thing in any way gains something from it (as simply as "I want my compatriots to thrive as it will make me happy to know that") it eliminates it's altruistic intention.
Basically you should throw yourself on the grenade if you hate your compatriots and want them to continue to exist unhappily.
Words have definitions
Giving blood helps the person giving that blood in no physical way
Humans do it because they don’t mind giving to benefit others even though it’s a physical negative and time eating practice
That is the definition of altruism
It means selflessly. For the benefit of others.
I am saying that if it brings joy to the person doing the action then it is not purely selflessly. It is in part for personal fulfillment per the hedonistic calculus.
https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/altruism
altruism
noun
al·tru·ism ˈal-trü-ˌi-zəm
Synonyms of altruism
1
: unselfish regard for or devotion to the welfare of others
charitable acts motivated purely by altruism
2
: behavior by an animal that is not beneficial to or may be harmful to itself but that benefits others of its species
Mankind would not exist if humans didn’t possess emotions that found them caring for others to one’s own detriment
It’s the product of a well functioning human mind
Yes humans are mostly good
Why do you seek to erase that concept?
Therefore there is no free will.
This is the definition
Not your definition
This is what is called a "philosophical discussion". It is not intended to erase any concepts, it is what people do who like to think about concepts. This is called an "idle discussion" in that it is merely playing with concepts. No one is asking you to harm anyone or give up the virtues you have. It is just a discussion.
And based on the wrong definition of a word
No, those are SYNONYMS (it's right there in the post you posted).
The definition is:
Disinterested or selfless concern for the well-being of others, esp. as a principle of action. (OED)
Sorry but the synonym line with an arrow is to click on and see synonyms
It is the definition on the page I posted
https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/altruism
altruism
noun
al·tru·ism ˈal-trü-ˌi-zəm
Synonyms of altruism
1
: unselfish regard for or devotion to the welfare of others
charitable acts motivated purely by altruism
2
: behavior by an animal that is not beneficial to or may be harmful to itself but that benefits others of its species
This is the definition
Doesn't change anything though. My use of the term is correct.
Altruism is about caring for others
So your example doesn’t fly
I am a firm believer that all people follow the Hedonistic Calculus of Bentham. Not that everyone wants to live like Caligula, but rather everyone seeks to minimize their pain and maximize their happiness.
To that end I am of the opinion that altruism doesn't exist per se.
If someone does something for another person that is purely altruistic they would have to be doing it because they WANTED to do it and therefore they felt it was something that would increase their happiness
An example: a soldier throws himself on a grenade. He does this out of love for his compatriots and he wants to see them survive. Which means he is acting according to the Hedonistic Calculus in that he will be happy if they survive.
The only way an action can be truly altruistic would be if the person doing it did NOT WANT TO DO IT and sees no value to the action that might make them happy in some way or decrease their discomfort.
If the person doing the altruistic thing in any way gains something from it (as simply as "I want my compatriots to thrive as it will make me happy to know that") it eliminates it's altruistic intention.
Basically you should throw yourself on the grenade if you hate your compatriots and want them to continue to exist unhappily.
Altruism exists
Because it’s about caring for others unselfishly
There is no caveat that says altruism isn’t supposed to make you proud of your actions