Jade Dragon
And I'm the one that jaded you.
I will.
With all Yurts whining about Goodreads, it seems funny that he should probably go there, and mingle about novels. You can make your own forums, moderate them, and lay down the rules. You also deal with seriously avid readers, as opposed to here, only finding some. He won't have the Yurt stuff to drag him down there. Although stalking probably would lead to dismissal from things.
https://www.goodreads.com/