Responding to (1) Of course you didn't. I actually did it on purpose because I don't want my ethnicity to be a determining factor in how people engage me.
Cawacko as for the rest of your post you are absolutely right. The Cosby show depicted a very intelligent, articulate, funny, well engaged family. In the media there are so many stereotypes that good family shows like the Cosby Show or the Fresh Prince of Bel-Air show become drowned out by movies like "Menace II Society" or "Boyz In DA Hood." Although the previous two are realities in America, most non-black Americans see Black America in the eyes of those previous movies--unfortunately. But yes, when I used to watch the Cosby show, for a moment I felt like I was apart of that family.
I am also not saying Cosby had to be a part of the gang truce but my point was is that if you are going to challenge the attitudes and minds of black adolesence, perhaps it is good to be an observer of the attitudes of those whom you intend to target. Gang violence was at a high and in the 90's Compton, Watts, Los Angeles county was the murder capital of the world.