Dutch Uncle
* Tertia Optio * Defend the Constitution
You know there is a form of atheism that basically just fails to believe in God as opposed to "refusing the acknowledge the possibility". I'm that kind of atheist. While I accept that I COULD BE WRONG right now I fail to see sufficient evidence for God. But if more information comes to me that proves to be compelling I will hopefully change my mind.
Sounds like that is what you are in relation to alien life. You simply fail to see any evidence for it, so you assume it likely doesn't exist. If such evidence comes to the fore you'll change your mind. Fair enough.
As the other poster noted, however, no one on here is saying for sure there's alien life. Just that all things considered the likelihood is non-zero. But it's all a guess anyway.
Anything outside the Universe is a big unknown. Asserting there is something out there is a belief. Asserting nothing is out there is also a belief, even if some prefer to call it "disbelief".
The logical answer is "I don't know" and then focus upon the knowable.