Dutch Uncle
* Tertia Optio * Defend the Constitution
Agreed hate is poison and self-defeating. It's such a strong emotion that it blocks reason. Many murders have happened because people hated so much they didn't fully realize the consequences what they were doing. Consider the murder of Ahmaud Arbery as an example.That is probably a common opinion for moral relativists and those who believe they lack free will.
Many of the great moral leaders of history taught that hate is a poison and ultimately self-defeating, e.g. Jesus, Confucius, the Buddha, Marcus Aurelius, Martin Luther King Jr.
Hatred can be suppressed and managed through a consistent program of self discipline, concious reflection, and cultivation of virtue.
The Buddha famously taught that things like not letting go of hate ultimately contribute to our own suffering.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/...ven-stage-hate-model-the-psychopathology-hate
The Seven-Stage Hate Model: The Psychopathology of Hate
Not all insecure people are haters, but all haters are insecure people.
Hate masks personal insecurities. Not all insecure people are haters, but all haters are insecure people. Hate elevates the hater above the hated. Haters cannot stop hating without exposing their personal insecurities. Haters can only stop hating when they face their insecurities.