AlexandrosTsolis
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Nah, you don't, here you are again following my post as if you are my little lovebird...
...fly free little lovebird, you can have fun elsewhere if you want to, I am not holding you here love...
...if you want to stay here...here's the subject that we are discussing love...
if someone tells you that something should be easy for you
if someone tells you that something should be easy for you, and then when you try something, something is easy, that was good advice in the end, but
if someone tells you that something should be easy for you, and then you try something, and something is difficult for you, it doesn't seem to me that it is easy for someone to judge what is easy for you, let alone give you advice....
as someone told you something should be easy for you, then you try it, then it is hard, and then someone doesn't know what that someone is talking about.
If that someone knew what that someone was talking about, then the specific thing someone told you should be easy for you, when you try it, then it has to be easy for you, or someone misjudged...
...regarding you, when you judge something is easy for you, something is easy for you...
...when you judge something is difficult for you, something is difficult for you...
...and when something other than the above two happens to you, you have misjudged what is easy and difficult for you for the specific occasion.
People who excel at difficult things
In order for people to have a good life, they need to have fun in a way that is fun for their own selves , or else they are not having fun, and the universe can't do anything to change that for them if they don't change their way, that they notice, is not fun for them.
Regarding people who excel at difficult things, either...
The things those people excel at, are not difficult for them up to the point they excel...or...
The things those people excel at, are difficult for them up to the point they excel, ...and then ....
People who excel at things, that are difficult for them up to the point they excel, make it more difficult for anyone else to excel, as they already know that there are some for who it is easy to excel up to the point they excel, if they don't add some extra hurdles on the way for other to excel...so that...they can excel instead...
Do these people make sense in general?
No, they don't in general.
And in specific, they make things difficult for others...
Shamed for doing something difficult
Some people find things which the majority find easy to do, difficult to do, and they are shamed for this.
Some people find things which the majority find easy to do, difficult to do, and they are not shamed for this.
Whether they are shamed for doing something or not, depends on the consequences something has in reality, on whether the rest like something in reality, and in the end on whether the rest people think it is sensible for them to try to be kind to others for the specific occasion, and...
sometimes it is sensible to be kind to another, and sometimes you are not being sensible with yourself, spending time and effort with another, and regardless of how kind you want to be to another, in the end justice is blind, since the beginning of humans, and you are not being sensible with yourself, when you ignore that.
things that are easy are easy for those who understand how to do them,
and things that are hard are no different than the things that are easy for those who don't understand how to do them...
Humans who have a different definition of easy than other humans, should remember:
Something is easy for me, if it is not hard for me to do in reality.
Something is easy for some people, if it is not hard for some people to do in reality.
Something is easy for most people , if it is not hard for most people to do in reality.
And what I mean by this is
If something is easy for most people or some people, but it is not easy for one, then whether something is easy doesn't become hard for everyone because of one, does it?
Clarifications
if people in groups or societies, don't have a common way to judge which things are easy or difficult, it seems to me things get more difficult for that group or society as time passes , or do you think this is not the case?
And what is that way,
which is common in a group of people to judge which things are easy or difficult,
you may wonder?..
In short it is what I initially wrote down. If you want me to write more...
You have a group of people, or society, people do things, and for the things they do, those things can be easy or difficult for them, on average, and that is because of the following...
When people in the group or society, want to judge other people in the same group or society doing things, they do that using their own personal view, but... regardless of their personal view, the common view people in the group or society have, is the view that most people have... commonly, that is the view that makes common sense for that group of people or society.
Because within a group of people, the common view people in the group or society have, is the view that most people have, the common view people in the group or society have, better for that group or society be a sensible one,
or else things get more difficult for the group or society, as time passes...
as the human senses work to support humans to have fun in their lives and stay alive up until they die, when humans follow their senses... and they warn them when they are not really having fun...
So how people in a group or society built a common view, happens in a funny way...
people exchange views, some are really thinking while doing that, some are really just choosing the views expressed in the group or society, that they would want the universe to impose to the rest of the group, as if the humans sense don't have common elements among humans...
But regardless of peoples' personal views,
the way that that human senses work is in a funny way for the conscious being inside the human body, because otherwise,
it wouldn't be funny for the conscious being inside the human body,
and this is because this is the best the universe could do for the conscious being inside the human body, both for the easy and the difficult times, as reality in the end is something else than anything you can imagine, because it really seems to be happening on its own without you really having to imagine reality, for reality to happen.
But to cut a long story short, so that I can hope that you at least have some reason to read my reply, in the end
within a group of people or society, people build a common view on which things are difficult or easy, however...unfortunately up to now, there can be cases where the entire group or society doesn't make sense, but this isn't what people who make up the group or society want to do, this is simply what they did, is what we find in the past, so that we can learn to avoid similar mistakes in the future.
