Seriously - I bet there is a connection. Dont know why she didn't just adopt. Whats the hangup people have about adoption.
Some people have it. My wife worries that if we adopt that somehow the original parents would come back later to take the child away. I know this isn't likely. We have one child (I am 44) and I would like to adopt but I know my wife would never agree because of her fear. My brother adopted 5 and my niece is in the process of adopting 2. I will never belittle my wife because of her fear as it is legitimate in her mind....but I had planned to adopt which is why I waited until later in life to marry.