Stymie
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This is what guys like me and Tom have been trying to say but not as effectively or as heart-jerkingly beautifully.
I think that seduction is the same, functionally and morally, as intimidation.\\
I'll start with functionally: seduction aims to use a man's desire against him by giving him the possibly false impression that he may have sexual relations with the seducer. By doing so he may make decisions that he might not otherwise make (buying a drink at a bar, paying for a purse, etc.) Intimidation does the same; the prospect of physical, monetary or emotional pain subjects the subordinate into doing things they might not otherwise do. Both of these options result in the same consequence of the dominant one convincing the subordinate that it is in their best interest to do something that is not in their best interest.
Now morally: the main claim against male intimidation is that men, on average bigger and stronger, are being unjust by asserting a natural superiority. By doing so they have an unfair disadvantage. But sexually, don't women have that same power? Men are genetically predisposed to look for mating opportunities in all women, and when a woman presents that opportunity, even the most iron-willed man could fall prey. I think everyone here can identify a situation in which they or others have given undue attention or favor to a woman who seems a possible sexual partner. Bought her shoes. Again, picked up her bar tab. Doesn't that result in the same affect as intimidation?
I've paid for too many goddamned purses in my time and I've lost count of the number of drinks I bought some dumb ho in a bar only to find her sneaking out the back door with some String-like pretty boy! I have been intimidated for the last time! I am going pussy-free from now on! This time voluntarily though. The previous pussy-free decade and a half don't count because that was forced upon me bygreedy dumb ho's!