Jade Dragon
And I'm the one that jaded you.
you'd fuck up a wet dream, lol.
It's priceless to see ILA so irritated, especially by someone just giving him what he gives.
you'd fuck up a wet dream, lol.
It's priceless to see ILA so irritated, especially by someone just giving him what he gives.
you'd fuck up a wet dream, lol.
Hello and goodbye coolzone,
You can call me anything you want, one time. That is my queue to place you on permanent Ignore.
I've made it quite clear I prefer to filter out rude posters, in order to create a refined experience here.
The civil approach totally works. I am enjoying very cordial and cerebral discussions here with some excellent minds. Great discussions. I have zero problem participating in high quality discussions because there are so many people who are able to express themselves bereft of invective. It's a common decency thing.
This approach also works well with socks. You are free to go create another personality and try again. But your new sock only gets one chance to tell me off. Then it, too, will be placed on Ignore. We can play that game as many times as you like. Doesn't matter to me whether some new handle which comes and insults me is the same person or a new one. The response will be the same.
I have found in life that people who use a lot of expletives and insults are not very happy, but those who find no need of such stress are.
The secret of life is enjoying time.
You only have so much time to be alive, so it is logical to seek to enjoy as much of it as possible.
I derive no pleasure from making others feel bad, which is the point of insults. That strikes me as a deplorable sort of pleasure, because it always has to come at someone else's expense. I don't need to make others feel poorly in order for me to be happy. I view that as a shallow and false happiness. Fleeting, for sure. And there is an inner guilt associated with it which must be ignored in order to pretend one is of clear conscience. That is going to cause subconscious stress, whether the individual admits it or not. Almost as if, in order to disrespect someone else, one must first disrespect oneself.
I just don't see the point of inviting that stress into one's life. There will be plenty, despite whatever attempt is made to minimize it. I just don't want to play that game. I enjoy being informed, talking about things that matter, learning what I can do to improve my country. Making America great, one life at a time, one moment at a time.
Putin wants us to be unhappy, angry at one another, hopelessly polarized, unable to unite or get anything meaningful done. So far, he is getting his way.
What we Americans need to do is believe that we are better than that. We need to believe that we can respect one another, that we can be more united, that we can listen to one another even if we disagree. We need to remind ourselves that we determine the course of our nation, we set the bar for what America looks like on the world stage. Not Putin. We do.
We need to guide our nation forward, show the world what we are made of.
I am leading by example. I believe my method is more noble than yours.
My words are not diminished by insults. Instead, they stand out: because of them. My words thus carry more weight than yours. My positions are based on facts, logic and compassion. They show that civility can be maintained even among loyal Americans who disagree. We can disagree and still be united. Too bad you blew it and we can't have any further discussion about this.
Have a nice life.
Sorry. I would do anything for love but I can't do that. I'm a full blown attention whore and rwnut stalker/trawler/troller.
Hello UnkaRitche,
I understand. The transcendence above tit for tat is daunting.
But I would say it is well worthwhile.
I think I am correct about this because I have done it both ways.
Long ago and far away on a different board I once mixed it up with anybody at any level. I had some of the most vile things to say about President George W Bush. I could not stand that man. I unloaded on anyone who would defend him.
A rather remarkable conservative poster took me aside and told me my words would be more effective if I dropped the mean streak and simply focused on the issues.
His words struck me.
I decided to try it.
I think he was right.
Since I don't get into the personal stuff I am forced to put more effort into my posts, do more research, learn more. I am better informed, and better able to argue issues. I now feel like if I were to go back to the shallow name-calling insult contests that I would be lowering myself to President Trump's level. I couldn't respect myself if I did that.
You don't sound like you are ready for that kind of transcendence.
You like music, so do I.
Here is a powerful song that comes to mind:
cool beans. love the dixie chicks. I remember when they were demonized by the rwnuts.
I see I misspelled 'Civil' in the OP Title.
I would edit that to correct if, if I could.
FYI, this is what everyone on JPP thinks of civil debate:
https://www.justplainpolitics.com/showthread.php?94270-change-name-of-APP
FYI, this is what everyone on JPP thinks of civil debate:
https://www.justplainpolitics.com/showthread.php?94270-change-name-of-APP
Talking from experience.....
Look at my new puppy following me around the board starved for my attention.
Aren't you the right wing snowflake who bans everyone from your usually dumb threads? You conservative snowflakes are rather funny, when challenged you hide, when your nonsense is countered you run. Sad.
"One reason I'm such a wayward prognosticator of rightwing trends is that I'm incapable of blacking out enough neural sectors to see the world through reptilian-brained eyes, a prerequisite for any true channeling of the mean resentments and implanted fears that drive hardcore conservatives." James Wolcott
Hello good people,
Another day, another poster on Ignore.
The most recent one never really contributed much anyway, that I could tell, so won't be missed.
Typical pattern.
A conversation begins.
I make a statement about the subject.
Another poster makes a conflicting statement. Implies that I have said something inaccurate. Doesn't actually say so. (No problem. At this point we're just establishing what we each believe about the subject.)
I provide a link which supports my statement, and refutes the position of the other poster. (Of course, as I do so, I focus only on the subject of discussion.)
The other poster insults me.
They get placed on permanent Ignore.
And they become my latest example to those who think they can just have me to unload their frustrations, stereotypes and misunderstandings on.
And here is a warning to anybody who thinks they can tell me off: I don't care if you are angry at 'the left.' I don't care if you want to attach all kinds of things to me, blame me for whatever you blame 'the left' for, or whatever. I am not going to be your receptacle for your latest fits of frustration. Not going to be your enabler. You can tell me off one time. That's on you. If I DON'T place you on Ignore, then I am accepting you will tell me off again. That's on me. Dis me once, shame on you. Dis me twice, shame on me.
The way I see it, if you flame on me and I don't put you on Ignore I would be a fool.
So if you want to talk to me, then you will have to treat me with the same respect that I treat you. Most can do that, but some just can't.
I understand it is predictable that social misfits go to the internet if they can't make any real friends. Those types are found here. It is prudent to set the appropriate filters to avoid seeing their attempts at being obnoxious and annoying enough to get attention + a small temporary endorphin rush.
That's what the Ignore feature is for.
An unpleasant chore, but absolutely worth while for preserving peace and intellectual serenity.
Hello good people,
Another day, another poster on Ignore.
The most recent one never really contributed much anyway, that I could tell, so won't be missed.
Typical pattern.
A conversation begins.
I make a statement about the subject.
Another poster makes a conflicting statement. Implies that I have said something inaccurate. Doesn't actually say so. (No problem. At this point we're just establishing what we each believe about the subject.)
I provide a link which supports my statement, and refutes the position of the other poster. (Of course, as I do so, I focus only on the subject of discussion.)
The other poster insults me.
They get placed on permanent Ignore.
And they become my latest example to those who think they can just have me to unload their frustrations, stereotypes and misunderstandings on.
And here is a warning to anybody who thinks they can tell me off: I don't care if you are angry at 'the left.' I don't care if you want to attach all kinds of things to me, blame me for whatever you blame 'the left' for, or whatever. I am not going to be your receptacle for your latest fits of frustration. Not going to be your enabler. You can tell me off one time. That's on you. If I DON'T place you on Ignore, then I am accepting you will tell me off again. That's on me. Dis me once, shame on you. Dis me twice, shame on me.
The way I see it, if you flame on me and I don't put you on Ignore I would be a fool.
So if you want to talk to me, then you will have to treat me with the same respect that I treat you. Most can do that, but some just can't.
I understand it is predictable that social misfits go to the internet if they can't make any real friends. Those types are found here. It is prudent to set the appropriate filters to avoid seeing their attempts at being obnoxious and annoying enough to get attention + a small temporary endorphin rush.
That's what the Ignore feature is for.
An unpleasant chore, but absolutely worth while for preserving peace and intellectual serenity.
PoliTalk, perhaps you should leave. Your condescending posts will not have the effect you seek.
I agree with most of the content of your last three posts, but please stop preaching and follow your advice.