I think I met "The One"

Beefy

Beefy

Worst gambler ever
But she lives in LA. And I live in Hawaii.

Synopsis:
My last night in LA for the holiday weekend, I decide to call my friends Todd and Helen and see f they want to head to the Corbin Bowl for Karaoke night as I've been doing since 1997. So they agree and say they have this really cool friend that wants to hang out too. So all systems go. I got there early, and hung around a bit and then I get the call that they're in the parking lot. Helen wanted to snap in the car so I got in the back seat only to see a total, gorgeous goddess back there with me. It was instant, instant chemistry. The whole night we danced, laughed, and had a couple of PG-13 moments and we are totally diggin each other. She's literally the girl I've dreamed of my whole life, but she lives 2,700 miles away. Funny how I couldn't meet her here isn't it?

Life goes on.
 
In case you missed this post on the other thread, Beefy:

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So you spend money on plane tickets, phone calls and the internet. You see if the instant chemistry is what it is.

Then one of you relocates.
 
PSYCH. Just kidding. And even if it is just a case mutual use and childhood fantasies, jump in and get you a piece of the pain. Because who are you to not be miserable?
 
If you still dig her after the infatuation wears off in 18-24months then she is possibly the one.
 
Chapdog said:
If you still dig her after the infatuation wears off in 18-24months then she is possibly the one.
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And if you don't, you won't have to worry about running into her for those unexpected and awkward meetings in public.
 
Beefy said:
But she lives in LA. And I live in Hawaii.

Synopsis:
My last night in LA for the holiday weekend, I decide to call my friends Todd and Helen and see f they want to head to the Corbin Bowl for Karaoke night as I've been doing since 1997. So they agree and say they have this really cool friend that wants to hang out too. So all systems go. I got there early, and hung around a bit and then I get the call that they're in the parking lot. Helen wanted to snap in the car so I got in the back seat only to see a total, gorgeous goddess back there with me. It was instant, instant chemistry. The whole night we danced, laughed, and had a couple of PG-13 moments and we are totally diggin each other. She's literally the girl I've dreamed of my whole life, but she lives 2,700 miles away. Funny how I couldn't meet her here isn't it?

Life goes on.
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Right on Beefy, Love finds a way. Take an LA sabatical and talk her into moving to the Islands or talk yourself into remainlanding. check out all the little Beach citys in Cali as a compromise location.
 
Yeah beefy, if you just met her you should totally have a conversation with her about moving away with you.

I can't see how she could find that in the least bit creepy.

/Sarcasm
 
Epicurus said:
Yeah beefy, if you just met her you should totally have a conversation with her about moving away with you.

I can't see how she could find that in the least bit creepy.

/Sarcasm
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I am sure there are plenty of women who could overcome their creepy feeling for a trip to hawaii.
 
Scientists Have shown that love is a form of mental illness. Or at least the effects are the same.
At least the type of love that Beefy is talking about.
 
I once felt the same way Beefy does about a man and it worked out really well.

You have to be Open to Love when it comes into your life.

I thought I was going to get devastated by this guy. He was gorgeous, funny, smart and other women were always interested in him. I went for it anyway because I thought "oh what the hell a broken heart heals". I was honest and open with him and gave of myself freely. It turned out that was just what he was looking for. In time I saw his faults and thought " hell this guy is worth every one of the little picadillos he posseses". People are not perfect but if you find one with the right possitive characteristics and negative characteristics that fit you its a great journey.
 
Desh said:
I once felt the same way Beefy does about a man and it worked out really well.

You have to be Open to Love when it comes into your life.

I thought I was going to get devastated by this guy. He was gorgeous, funny, smart and other women were always interested in him. I went for it anyway because I thought "oh what the hell a broken heart heals". I was honest and open with him and gave of myself freely. It turned out that was just what he was looking for. In time I saw his faults and thought " hell this guy is worth every one of the little picadillos he posseses". People are not perfect but if you find one with the right possitive characteristics and negative characteristics that fit you its a great journey.
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I have managed to find three women that I considered "great loves" in my life.

One lasted for 15 years, one was a disastor but still worth it, and the third is still going.
 
What a lucky man you are. I have often thought I could never find another one like the one I have if I lost him somehow. You are a smart guy to realize that even Love gone wrong can be worth the journey.
 
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