12 of the 13 colonies were originally settled by the Brits (English and Scots-Irish), with the Dutch settling New Amsterdam/York.
The French did not settle ANYWHERE IN THE 13 COLONIES. They colonized in Canada, which became heavily Anglicized when a flood of Loyalists went there during and after the American Revolution. The French claimed Louisianna Terr., but barely settled any of it, beyond Nawlins, except the trappers who operated into the interior and into the Pacific NW and did business for Hudson's Bay.
Finally, we sided with the French during the Revolution for the same reason we sided with the USSR during WWII - we wanted to win. The alliance with French created the first pro-French ferver in history, but after the war, we basically dumped them, pissed them off by refusing to support them against the British, faught them in the Quasi War, got pissed off at them for the XYZ Affair, and went back to hating them again, once the French Revolution proved to be a disturbing failure.
As you can see, a lot of people had an axe to grind.