IHateGovernment
Is this your homework?
However Rob I asked you not whether it is important but of #1 importance. So apparently this trumps all other concerns.
This is your problem. You put this at the very top of your concerns. I am not telling you to date someone you don't find attractive but I think you also need to include other considerations.
the problem is that the kind of men you are going after know they are good looking and nothing is worse than a man who just knows he is the shit. This explains there poor behavior. The people they primarily enter into relations with are shallow themselves and thus this is what they have come to expect. However people like this are a dime a dozen so they don't place any value in the people seeking them out. Thus you become disposable to them.
I suggest you avoid the type of men who just know they are hot or whatever. Not telling you to find someone you aren't attracted to but look also for someone who is more likely to exhibit the traits you desire. The guy who people go after because of his looks isn't going to be it.
Go after a guy who is good looking but the main reason people are interested in him is his personality, sense of humor, or other internal quality. This facet will have shaped the man into a different kind of person and will be more suitable for you.
This is your problem. You put this at the very top of your concerns. I am not telling you to date someone you don't find attractive but I think you also need to include other considerations.
the problem is that the kind of men you are going after know they are good looking and nothing is worse than a man who just knows he is the shit. This explains there poor behavior. The people they primarily enter into relations with are shallow themselves and thus this is what they have come to expect. However people like this are a dime a dozen so they don't place any value in the people seeking them out. Thus you become disposable to them.
I suggest you avoid the type of men who just know they are hot or whatever. Not telling you to find someone you aren't attracted to but look also for someone who is more likely to exhibit the traits you desire. The guy who people go after because of his looks isn't going to be it.
Go after a guy who is good looking but the main reason people are interested in him is his personality, sense of humor, or other internal quality. This facet will have shaped the man into a different kind of person and will be more suitable for you.