Just because someone is a homosexual does not mean that we cannot love him (or her) or pray for him (her).
Homosexuality is a
sin and like any other sin it needs to be dealt with in the only way possible. It needs to be laid at the cross and forsaken. Homosexuality is not a special practice that is exempt from God's righteous judgment simply because they claim they are born that way, or just want to be free to love, or say that it is normal. People are born with a tendency to lie.
Does that make it okay? People want to love each other, but since when is "love" the determiner of what is right and wrong? If homosexuality is normal, then why is it practiced by so few? The great majority of people are heterosexual. Are they "more" normal?
Please understand that I don't hate homosexuals. I wouldn't care if my neighbor is gay. I've had homosexual friends and have loved them the same as I would anyone else.
But, the Bible says homosexuality is a sin and the solution to the problem of sin (the breaking of God's Law,
1 John 3:4) is found only in
Jesus. He is the Lord, the Savior, the risen King. Jesus is God in flesh (
John 1:1,
14) and he died to save sinners. We are all sinners and we need salvation (
Eph. 2:8-9) that is found in receiving Christ (
John 1:12-13).
We Christians should pray for the
salvation of the homosexual the same as we would for any other person trapped in any other sin. This is not an issue of arrogance or judgmentalism. We don't want
anyone to be lost due to their sin and that includes gays, lesbians, and transgenders.
The homosexual is still made in the
image of God -- even though he (or she) is in rebellion.
Therefore, we Christians should show homosexuals the same dignity as anyone else with whom we come in contact.
Don't injure them.
Don't hate them.
Don't judge them.
Inform them that freedom and forgiveness are found in Jesus. Let them know that God loves us and died for us so that we might be delivered from the consequences of our sin.
But, this does not mean that you are to approve of what they do. Don't compromise your witness for a socially acceptable opinion that is void of rationality, godliness, and biblical truth. Instead, stand firm in the word that God has revealed and patiently love him/her biblically, and pray for their salvation. Be kind to them. Be loving. And, when appropriate, tell them the
gospel.
Finally, if you are a homosexual, please understand that I do not hate you nor do I judge you. Sin is sin and the
forgiveness of our sins is found in Christ.
http://carm.org/bible-homosexuality