I was subjected to the actions of the persons, more than the words of the scripture. I read no where in the bible where drinking (in moderation) , going to movies, dancing, etc are sins....they were in the church I was raised in.
If religion is so good why do children have to be programmed from birth into it ?
Program them, than ask them to make a choice ? Yeah right!
It is what is required of them.
Let me give a story of the church I grew up in, just one tiny one...
As a child of 6 or maybe even 5, I was forced to watch a movie dealing with the "End Times" (they say it that way, you can hear the capitals in the emphasis they give them). In that movie they showed children being "Left Behind" as believer parents were taken up in the Rapture. Also in the movie was a representation of the beheadings for not taking a Mark...
About four years later in life I came home from school (young newly made atheist), the front door was open, water was running, all the lights in the house were on, my mother was not home....
Can you imagine the fear setting in?
Come to find out that they had to turn power off and the water as they worked on underground lines in our area that were causing serious problems for the Electric Company... My mother had simply turned the water on, got nothing, and the power was out too so she had tried lights. She had gone to the neighbors asking questions about what was happening...
Still, I'll never forget the reaction to what I saw when I came home that day...
Anyway, living up to the religion that tells you to raise them in belief, and to spread the word doesn't change the fact that were they following the requirements that I have read they would have done both of these. If they believe they will continue to do them. It isn't something I will judge them poorly for, just realize that they thought they were doing right by me even as they pushed me away.