Sorry, words mean things. There is more than one procedure to abort a fetus, even in mid- to late-term pregnancies. Your focus on one particular method to the exclusion of other methods regarding morality makes no sense. Either you deplore all late-term abortions regardless of method, or you're okay with one method but not others because you're triggered by its ominous colloquial name, or you're okay with late-term abortion because reasons.
re: the bold, ... no. you don't have my position at all. My position is.. (i think) I am ok in all circumstances, though I could still be convinced otherwise.
as to the rest, as I said, I don't really care what we call it. I'd rather to continue to have the discussion. So what would be a good short hand word that we can use so we can continue this convo?