Reality: Homosexual Marriage

Now you are making things now Dixie. I have absolutely been in favor of having benefits for civil unions. I have said numerous times that it would be best to have all gov't benefits stem from the civil union and leave the religious ceremonies up to the various religions who preside over them.

Argue the points, but don't make up shit that I did not say.

Well then shut the fuck up about the ridiculous idea of "redefining" traditional marriage, and let's work together for comprehensive civil unions legislation! Seems like to me, if you are all fire concerned with benefits and perks, that would be the way to go, but all I keep hearing is an incessant plea for the absurd, to people who aren't interested.
 
I cannot disagree with this. the non-human category is indeed reserved for liberals.

as to the other part about gays not having the right to marry. lets examine this in a constitutional light.

People have a right to enter in to a contractual agreement that does not break the law, correct?

and marriage, by definition, is a contract mutually agreed upon, correct?

and this marriage contract is recognized by all 50 states of the union via the full faith and credit clause, correct?

so where does any government entity have the constitutional authority to define who can and cannot enter in to a legal contract?

two gay men can enter into an agreement that governs the actions between them......but when that agreement has binding effect on third parties, such as employers and insurance companies it becomes a different matter....by what right do two people enter into an agreement which effects me without my consent?.....
 
two gay men can enter into an agreement that governs the actions between them......but when that agreement has binding effect on third parties, such as employers and insurance companies it becomes a different matter....by what right do two people enter into an agreement which effects me without my consent?.....

healthcare/obamacare
hippa
social security/fica
medicare


these are just some examples where two people or entities have entered in to a contractual agreement that affects you without your consent.
 
healthcare/obamacare
hippa
social security/fica
medicare


these are just some examples where two people or entities have entered in to a contractual agreement that affects you without your consent.

medicare and social security are contracts between two individuals?.....they are government laws which effect the contracts people can make, not the other way around.....
 
gays should be second class citizens...they do not deserve the fundamental right to marry...that should be reserved for britney spears, liz taylor, larry king or who ever wants to get married and divorced a hundred times!!!!!
 
so what?....I'm not saying they can't love anyone they want.....I'm just saying I reject the law telling me what I must consider to be normal.....marriage between two heterosexuals is normal, marriage between two people of the same sex is not......I don't care if two men consider themselves married, I just care whether the law requires me to agree with them......

I don't think anyone expects you to agree with anything.

What is expected is that the gov't treat everyone equally. I will not effect you at all. The number of gay couples will not be changed by allowing them to marry.
 
are you suggesting that the centuries old definition of marriage precluded blind, deaf paraplegics?.....

in any event, I'm pretty sure the law precludes strawmen from being married, and that's all your present argument is proposing.....

you can pretend all you like, but it's going to take more than a liberal's opinion to convert the abnormal into the normal......

No, I am saying that being born blind is abnormal. Being born deaf is abnormal. But they are allowed to marry.
 
do those abnormalities contradict the definition of marraige?.....I suspect, for example there are other instances in which those abnormalities would prohibit government approval.....for instance, no one is asking for a re-definition of "sight" to permit a blind person from getting a driver's license......should we petition the government to require basketball teams to hire people without arms because it isn't fair to treat them differently?.......should autistic people be hired as flight controllers at airports because it isn't fair?......

Now you are creating strawman arguments.

But yes, I will shoot them down one at a time.

A blind person driving constitutes an obvious danger.

Basketball players without arms would require a change in the way the game is played and would change basketball for everyone.

Autistic people as air traffic controllers would constitute a danger.



Now the three examples you cited are all situations in which there are established requirements which, if removed, would effect everyone.

The same situation is not present in gay marriage. The change is an addition to marriage (or make all benefits stem from the civil union licenced by the gov't). It does not take anything away from straight marriages. In fact, it does not change or effect straight marriages at all.
 
Well then shut the fuck up about the ridiculous idea of "redefining" traditional marriage, and let's work together for comprehensive civil unions legislation! Seems like to me, if you are all fire concerned with benefits and perks, that would be the way to go, but all I keep hearing is an incessant plea for the absurd, to people who aren't interested.

Because, Dixie, unless you have ignored these numerous threads, there are some who demand that gays get absolutely no benefits from their relationships. There are plenty who absolutely refuse to accept any compromise.

You want to try and get them to go along, knock yourself out. But the reasons given have been the same ones being addressed here.
 
two gay men can enter into an agreement that governs the actions between them......but when that agreement has binding effect on third parties, such as employers and insurance companies it becomes a different matter....by what right do two people enter into an agreement which effects me without my consent?.....

By what right do we require the agreements between 2 straight people have a binding effect on third parties, such as employers and insurance companies?

In fact, there are gay owned businesses that are required to honor the agreements between men & women, while their own agreements are ignored.
 
Because, Dixie, unless you have ignored these numerous threads, there are some who demand that gays get absolutely no benefits from their relationships. There are plenty who absolutely refuse to accept any compromise.

You want to try and get them to go along, knock yourself out. But the reasons given have been the same ones being addressed here.

Stop trying to force them to accept something absurd, that would be my advice. We currently have NO law on the book which prohibits a person doing one damn thing because they are homosexual, and I doubt our society would ever go for such a law. No one here is arguing that we should ban homosexuality, or condemn homosexuals to death, just that we shouldn't redefine traditional marriage to include a sexually 'deviant' lifestyle. And I agree with that, I think it is a stupid idea, and if we ever did manage to do such a thing, it would pave the way for EVERY sexual deviant in this country to demand equal protection under the law, and we would HAVE TO grant this, because it's in our Constitution! You may think that is 'paranoia' or that such a thing wouldn't happen, but I guarantee it would happen, in fact, polygamists are already gearing up for such a challenge, should Gay Marriage EVER become law of the land. Now we can bitch, moan, and argue about this for another few decades, if that is what you want to do, or we can grow the fuck up and move on! Pass some kind of comprehensive Civil Union bill, removing the state from the "marriage" business altogether, and replacing it with a contractual arrangement entered into by two consenting adults, and I believe most Americans would support such a thing, if for no other reason than to put this silliness to rest once and for all! You can disagree with me on that, but I ask you, which one has the better chance of being realized? Common sense should tell you the answer and it should be relatively clear.
 
I had thought better of you than to try the old Southern Man obfuscation. You know I did no such thing and its beyond me why you're intent on holding that position.

waterboarding is waterboarding. It doesn't matter what extras were thrown in by the japanese because jumping on someone elses stomach isn't the issue, waterboarding is.

you said it was authorized and legal, I asked you by who and how was it done so.

you are seriously confused. YOU are the one who compared differences by clinging to salt water and position as well as stomach jumping. I stuck to waterboarding alone and said all the rest was irrelevant.

but still had the same mental and emotional effects, therefore torture.


so congress and the president have the authority to override legal precedents and the constitution?

if yes, then it goes back to my question of what happens if a liberal congress decides to include right wing militia types as terrorists and can waterboard us?

You said "Originally Posted by SmarterThanYou
and when the liberal government gets around to calling people like myself terrorists, is it ok to carefully controlled waterboard me then?"

I asked if that meant you were either going to kill civilians for political reasons or if you were saying Khalid Shaikh Mohammed, Abu Zubayda and Abd al-Rahim al-Nashiri were not terrorists. I asked because I don't accept your unfounded premise that the government is going to arbitrarily call you a terrorist...you failed to answer my question.

The extras absolutely matter because the extras are what caused it to be called torture...the extras are what led to death and permanent damage...so yeah the extras matter! Waterboarding as used by CIA operatives was not the same as the outlawed water torture and water cure practiced by the Japanese.

I know what you asked and I said, that for someone wishing to debate the issue, you should not need to be schooled on the who and the when. But I answered the question.

Again, the differences between the Japanese techniques and CIA techniques is not irrelevant, and you saying it is, does not make it so. You may feel that the difference is unimportant or not relevant, but legally, physically, and mentally the differences are ABSOLUTELY relevant.

They do not have the same effects and THAT has been proven. That they are both used as a form of coercion is not doubted; numerous techniques are used to that end...that's why it is called interrogation...

If right wing militia groups, with premeditation, decide to murder civilians for political motives then they are terrorists. Now if they declare war against our army, wear a uniform and form a military, then you would be a soldier and possibly tried for treason...but you would no be a terrorist, though you would be subject to military interrogations.
 
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a pretty obvious "win" of an argument, as arguments go.......


so, did it become a strawman when I anwered Damo's post or when he posted it?.....



so what?....I'm not saying they can't love anyone they want.....I'm just saying I reject the law telling me what I must consider to be normal.....marriage between two heterosexuals is normal, marriage between two people of the same sex is not......I don't care if two men consider themselves married, I just care whether the law requires me to agree with them......

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so what?....I'm not saying they can't love anyone they want.....I'm just saying I reject the law telling me what I must consider to be normal.....marriage between two people of the same race is normal, marriage between two people of different races is not......I don't care if two people of different races consider themselves married, I just care whether the law requires me to agree with them......
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Then what do you intend to do, when this changes and requires you to acept that members of the same sex can be legally married.
 
I don't think anyone expects you to agree with anything.

What is expected is that the gov't treat everyone equally. I will not effect you at all. The number of gay couples will not be changed by allowing them to marry.
they don't expect me to agree with it?......you mean I am free to ignore them if they demand insurance benefits and tax benefits as a married couple....sweet, then I withdraw my objections......it was only bothering me because I thought I was expected to agree that an abnormal relationship was a normal one....
 
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