Remembering Beefy

Damocles

Damocles

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Let's remember Beefy.
 
He told a story about living in Hawaii, buying pineapples at Costco, then selling them on the road to Hana to the tourist for twice the money.
 
I wish more than ever now that I was able to save those last few months of posts. He came back, and I believe, said his goodbyes.

He really was good people all the way to the bone. I can't imagine him in that dark place...

 
I'll have to say that the past three years have been the worst my family has gone through... and now I lost a friend I always thought I would see again. I planned on going out to Hawai'i with the family and introducing them. I was always a bit sad that he moved from CO, then to Hawai'i....
 
Damocles said:
I wish more than ever now that I was able to save those last few months of posts. He came back, and I believe, said his goodbyes.

He really was good people all the way to the bone. I can't imagine him in that dark place...

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He was either saying goodbye or he was asking for help. Nobody will ever know.
 
Damocles said:
I wish more than ever now that I was able to save those last few months of posts. He came back, and I believe, said his goodbyes.

He really was good people all the way to the bone. I can't imagine him in that dark place...

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yeah we lost a lot of good stuff. we might find some things via google cache sleuthing.
 
Wow, so sad to hear this news. I hope his family and friends can find peace and understanding in his actions. I've been close to hurting myself a few times in the past so I guess part of me understands suicidal thoughts. Hating yourself really sucks
 
I'm Sorry You Are Gone!



I wish I knew I needed to tell you that



I wish you reached out


now you just make the mist more beautiful


and us more sad
 
Damocles said:
I'll have to say that the past three years have been the worst my family has gone through... and now I lost a friend I always thought I would see again. I planned on going out to Hawai'i with the family and introducing them. I was always a bit sad that he moved from CO, then to Hawai'i....
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I am sorry for your family and your loss. Depression, I assume Beefy suffered from it, is a terrible and treatable disease.

Separately, I will pray that things get better for your family. I guess you already know that good and bad times are seen as such by the participants but its really simply a personal judgement and can be overcome. I wish that for you and your family.
 
I was sitting on my back porch and this song popped into my head.



I immediately thought of beefy.



I have always loved that song



it made me love Blink182


Now forever it will be Beefys song in my brain


I couldn't change that if I wanted to



Beefy there will be no doubt many of shots in your honor yet to be taken by me when I hear your song.



but residing in the mist means you never got to know any of this
 
Jarod said:
I am sorry for your family and your loss. Depression, I assume Beefy suffered from it, is a terrible and treatable disease.

Separately, I will pray that things get better for your family. I guess you already know that good and bad times are seen as such by the participants but its really simply a personal judgement and can be overcome. I wish that for you and your family.
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There are some things that are just bad regardless of what view you look at it from. Had I known what Beefs was working through I could have helped him see with some perspective. Some stuff is so bad that all it serves in this vein is to give you a different perspective on anything you used to think was bad in the past. What he was facing was more than likely not insurmountable and I wish I had been there for him. There is one thing in particular that happened that will affect everything I think and do for a lifetime.
 
evince said:
I was sitting on my back porch and this song popped into my head.



I immediately thought of beefy.



I have always loved that song



it made me love Blink182


Now forever it will be Beefys song in my brain


I couldn't change that if I wanted to



Beefy there will be no doubt many of shots in your honor yet to be taken by me when I hear your song.



but residing in the mist means you never got to know any of this
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Blink 182 rules. I was bowling last week (I league bowl with my unit) and this girl on the other team was wearing a Blink 182 shirt, so I started humming All the Small Things.
 
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