I think the issue is Obama's 20 year relationship with this guy and the importance Obama places on the relationship with him. Thus the intrigue of how similar are Obama's views to Wright's.
If a Republican spoke about having a 20 year relationship with someone like Pat Robertson then yes they would getting their ass drilled for it.
Pandering for votes from some religious wack job is one thing and stating your long term personal relationship with one is another.
Bush has been inviting these rightwing nut jobs into the oval office and to meet with top adminstration officials. For YEARS.
I'm not buying this nuance, that the "relationship" is different. It sounds to me like a David Vitter-esqe explanation about why Spitzer's dalliances with prostitutes is different than Diaper Dave's was.
And for that matter, I personally didn't see anything offensive in any of the minister's comments. With the exception of the KKK one, which given the context and given that america IS racist nation, didn't bother me personally. Everything else he said was true. But, it was said in a way that is sometime typical of racuous revival preaching in the black community, that frightened white people can be jarred by it. Personally, I think that says more about white people, than it does about blacks.