That is because you only see the deaths that resulted from this war. You shall continue to ignore the dead during the sanctions and those that would have continued should we have kept Saddam "contained" (translated: He could only kill rape and maim his own people and not us). You will continue to ignore all the chants for the end of sanctions because of their ineffictiveness and resulting consequences to the people of Iraq.
It is because you equate the death and cost from what has occured and project it to mean that there were no other ways to manage it to different outcomes.
But that is ok. I respect your opinion on what you think would have been the best way to go. I disagree with it, but as I stated you could be right, you could be wrong. There is no way for us to know. It is all conjecture based on our beliefs of "what might have been".
Well guys I wonder when Bush is going to send troops to the Congo.