Yes, the anthropomorphic principle is not a bad argument - that anything that is possible will become possible somewhere in the universe or multi verse or whatever you want to call it, and we just happen to live in a little corner of the universe where conditions are precisely tuned and organized for complex matter and life.
To me it is not philosophically satisfying because it invokes luck, and it gives off a vague whiff of trying to sweep the coincidence of the rational order of the universe under the carpet.
I somewhat understand your perspective, C,
and I also understand how it could work well
with those of a certain attitude or predisposition.
It doesn't quite work for me, but then again,
I'm OK with the concept of rational order being kept under the carpet.
I'd have a harder time trying to live with the idea
that what passes for our rational order
was somehow deliberately calculated.
Believing that would leave me in a constant state of rage,
with no intermittent respite as I manage to enjoy now,
and I would never have reached the age that I am now.
I suspect that you somewhat understand my perspective as well.
Perspectives don't have to be shared to be at least somewhat understood.