Yes. when people say gay they mean male homosexuals. hence PFLAG (Parents and Friends of Lesbians And Gays). you are stupid.
So, now we have it then. First of all, you're wrong, in NY's large gay scene, gay women call themselves, well, gay women.
More importantly, you are on no moral high ground, you don't give a shit about families, you are just another guy with a phobia of men getting it on with each other, but who loves to hear about, or better yet, watch, two women doing it.
A dime a dozen. That's what you are AHZ.