Hello StoneByStone,
Cawacko and Flash, I'll give you. Are they Trump supporters?
Annonymoose, nooo.
I noticed a thing about smiling long ago.
If you pass a stranger on the street, in a store, whatever, and you find yourself looking into each other's face, most people will not immediately give you a smile.
They are tentatively checking out your expression. They are looking for a hint of how to read you.
Now here's the thing. If you smile first, they will generally smile back (unless they are not feeling very well at all.)
But if you have no expression on your face, that is what you will get back. An expressionless look.
It's sort of the same way here at JPP.
Only in this case, we cannot smile.
That's why I begin my posts with a greeting, and treat people with respect, never saying anything derogatory about them, focusing my posts on the discussion.
And then a marvelous thing happens. My posts come across refreshingly different from the typical wall of indifference most people put up. I let them know in this way that it is OK to drop the pretense, drop their guard a little bit. I am not threatening, not gonna bite anybody's head off. I just wanna talk about the subject, not them. The result of that is I probably get a different response than others get out of the same person. I put out respect and that is what I get back. (If I don't, I won't even talk to them. It's either mutual respect or nothing for me.)
I said there were other conservatives I can share respect with I had overlooked. One of them is Sirthinksalot. He has never been rude to me.
And, you know, ain't it like that in real life? The smile thing is just an example of it. Basically, you get back the energy you put out. It's another way of saying what goes around comes around.
That's why Trump gathers all these combative dysfunctional Jerry Springer types. That's the energy he puts out.
Not all of his supporters are like that. But most of his fans are. There's a difference. Education level doesn't always equate to interpersonal functionality. But there is a correlation.
I generally don't even want to talk to racists. But racism isn't a clear delineation. There's degrees of it. You can't judge a person by skin color, but there are other indicators. I won't talk to an overt racist because I find that offensive. But I talk to you because you put out a much better energy and you've always been respectful to me. Although I must say I don't know many people who wish the other races well, but simply feel races are better off when separated. I don't understand that but I'm fascinated to hear how you rationalize it. I will never agree, but as long as the discussion is civil I'm good with that. I'm an atheist who has a lot of Jewish friends. I've had a lot of fun with them in my life. I know my life would be diminished without that. I've also got some Hispanic friends I coudn't imagine cutting out of my life without making it less. The black acquaintances I've known have all come across as good people too. I know our nation is better off for having all this diversity. Diversity makes America great. I don't really see a problem with that. The trouble-makers in our society come in the form of all races and back grounds. People have to be judged as individuals, not ethnic roots. Just surround yourself with good people, push the bad ones away, and you've got a great life! It's not rocket science. It's how social circles work.