The word “God” is a place holder for whatever power created the Universe. Agreed such a power would be unlikely to be limited by the Natural Universe. Likewise putting a gender on such a power is equally silly. It’s anthropomorphism to assign human traits to something capable of creating the entire universe.
When you anthropomorphize God into an old guy in a robe sitting on a throne, it's easier to point and laugh.
When God, Brahman, the Tao, Krishna, Li, are just avatars for some ultimate truth, some higher organization principle underlying reality, then you can start having a real discussion.
I do think the evangelicals who feel they have a personal relationship with god, even talk to him are off their rockers.