Waaa, what about free speech!!!

[Diesel]

You also posted you don't care what I think yet, here you are.

I've never seen a man act like that, but I've seen a lot of women act that way.

Of course, you and I grew up in different neighborhoods so YMMV. LOL

So now I'm a woman. I know you're trying to insult me, but you're really bad at it.

 

[Dutch Uncle]

So now I'm a woman. I know you're trying to insult me, but you're really bad at it.

Effeminate is the proper term. A feminine personality. I have no idea what hardware you are sporting in your pants, Diesel....or used to sport. Not that there's anything wrong with whatever you choose in that regard. I'm simply making a behavioral observation.

Your flirting with the "I don't care" is illogical and, in American culture, is feminine in behavior.

 

[Diesel]

Effeminate is the proper term. A feminine personality. I have no idea what hardware you are sporting in your pants, Diesel....or used to sport. Not that there's anything wrong with whatever you choose in that regard. I'm simply making a behavioral observation.

Your flirting with the "I don't care" is illogical and, in American culture, is feminine in behavior.

Is that what you think? How old are you? How many men do you know and are you close with whom are under the age of 40?

The word "effeminate" is not only derogatory by definition, but the way you are using it is outdated by about three decades. Did you miss the metrosexual movement of the 1990s? Do you still consider cologne, manicures, and fitted shirts "effeminate"? Is your only hope of happiness today calling a non-straight stranger on the anonymous internet effeminate? I'm sure someone feels bad for you, but I don't. You're a grade school bully and an internet troll. You should be so proud.

 

[Dutch Uncle]

Is that what you think?

How old are you?

How many men do you know and are you close with whom are under the age of 40?

Yes. Why else would I post it?

66. You?

I've trained a few thousand Twentysomething males and a few females. Currently, I keep in contact with less than a dozen. Why did you pick 40 as the cutoff? Is it because you are at or under 40?

 

[Diesel]

Yes. Why else would I post it?

66. You?

I've trained a few thousand Twentysomething males and a few females. Currently, I keep in contact with less than a dozen. Why did you pick 40 as the cutoff? Is it because you are at or under 40?

Yes. I think most men born in the 80s or later have a drastically different perception of masculinity than our fathers and grandfathers have. So anytime I hear someone older tell us what masculinity really means, all I can do is smile and pat you guys on your heads.

 

[Dutch Uncle]

Yes. I think most men born in the 80s or later have a drastically different perception of masculinity than our fathers and grandfathers have. So anytime I hear someone older tell us what masculinity really means, all I can do is smile and pat you guys on your heads.

Agreed. Again, I've trained thousands of twentysomethings up through 2019. I'm familiar with the social changes.

What does this have to do with your passive-aggressive effeminate personality and victim mentality/chip on your shoulder?

https://www.mindful.org/the-better-way-to-play-lose-the-chip-on-your-shoulder/
The Better Way to Play: Lose the Chip on Your Shoulder
The old adage, "I'll show them!" doesn't give us an edge over gameplay. Peak performance comes from recognizing our self-worth.

Motivation that begins with us believing in our worth right from the start. It gives us the freedom to focus all of our energy on the process of what leads us to our greatness. Void of distractions and negative thoughts, believing in oneself from the beginning of our journey is by far the most effective strategy for achieving high performance.

 

[Diesel]

Agreed. Again, I've trained thousands of twentysomethings up through 2019. I'm familiar with the social changes.

What does this have to do with your passive-aggressive effeminate personality and victim mentality/chip on your shoulder?

https://www.mindful.org/the-better-way-to-play-lose-the-chip-on-your-shoulder/
The Better Way to Play: Lose the Chip on Your Shoulder
The old adage, "I'll show them!" doesn't give us an edge over gameplay. Peak performance comes from recognizing our self-worth.

I don't know whom you've trained what, but those people should get their money back. I'm telling you that your perception of "passive-aggressive effeminate personality" is at least 30 years expired. Old dog, new tricks. You know how it goes. And your insistence that I'm a victim is just your overt attempt to make me one. I'm not. You wish that all LGBTQ people would remain victims and that you could lord your omniscient benevolence over us, but you're not an ally. We don't need you. We don't want you. You're just another over the hill bro talking shit on the internet.

 

[Dutch Uncle]

I don't know whom you've trained what, but those people should get their money back. I'm telling you that your perception of "passive-aggressive effeminate personality" is at least 30 years expired. Old dog, new tricks. You know how it goes. And your insistence that I'm a victim is just your overt attempt to make me one. I'm not.

You wish that all LGBTQ people would remain victims and that you could lord your omniscient benevolence over us, but you're not an ally. We don't need you. We don't want you. You're just another over the hill bro talking shit on the internet.

You're free to your opinion just like I am, Diesel. The difference is that you are angered by it and I'm not.

You need to work on your assessment of others since it's defective to the point of projection. People are the way they are. I'm curious about understanding what make other people tick and have no desire to pigeonhole all of them into the same block. On the contrary, you just tried to pigeonhole me into the "over the hill bro" block. LOL

 

[Diesel]

You're free to your opinion just like I am, Diesel. The difference is that you are angered by it and I'm not.

You need to work on your assessment of others since it's defective to the point of projection. People are the way they are. I'm curious about understanding what make other people tick and have no desire to pigeonhole all of them into the same block. On the contrary, you just tried to pigeonhole me into the "over the hill bro" block. LOL

Well, you perceive anger where none exists, so there's that.

 

[Dutch Uncle]

Well, you perceive anger where none exists, so there's that.

I admit, on a post-by-post basis, I can be wrong. However, over time, a person's personality emerges. It's for all to see and works on anyone.

You're smart, Diesel, but unsure enough of yourself to run from pointed questions. It also makes you overly defensive, as you and I have previously discussed.

It's your right to run from discussions, but then it makes your claims that I'm never willing to discuss and your claim to be willing seems less than honest.

 

[Diesel]

I admit, on a post-by-post basis, I can be wrong. However, over time, a person's personality emerges. It's for all to see and works on anyone.

You're smart, Diesel, but unsure enough of yourself to run from pointed questions. It also makes you overly defensive, as you and I have previously discussed.

It's your right to run from discussions, but then it makes your claims that I'm never willing to discuss and your claim to be willing seems less than honest.

I didn't tell you my Myers-Briggs profile. I'm an ENFJ. Is there something else you're accusing me of running from?

 

[Dutch Uncle]

I didn't tell you my Myers-Briggs profile. I'm an ENFJ.

Is there something else you're accusing me of running from?

Thanks. As you saw from the link, you share that with evince, guno and my wife. I share being an INTJ with Micawber (banned far Lefty) and T. A. Gardner (far right white nationalist)....which, TBH, I find slightly disturbing.

Yes, your anger and resultant chip. My best advice is more confidence and less worrying about what dumbasses think.

 

[Diesel]

Thanks. As you saw from the link, you share that with evince, guno and my wife. I share being an INTJ with Micawber (banned far Lefty) and T. A. Gardner (far right white nationalist)....which, TBH, I find slightly disturbing.

Yes, your anger and resultant chip. My best advice is more confidence and less worrying about what dumbasses think.

I'll file your unsolicited advice where I file all of it.

 

[Dutch Uncle]

I'll file your unsolicited advice where I file all of it.

Of course. Why would you take advice from anyone you've judged to be "just another over the hill bro talking shit on the internet"?

What piques my curiosity is why you care at all?

 

[Diesel]

Of course. Why would you take advice from anyone you've judged to be "just another over the hill bro talking shit on the internet"?

What piques my curiosity is why you care at all?

Mostly because I believe you to be intelligent albeit with a nearly nonexistent EQ. I also respond to most of the notifications I receive, but as you know, I ignore a fair amount of them too.

 

[Dutch Uncle]

Mostly because I believe you to be intelligent albeit with a nearly nonexistent EQ.

I also respond to most of the notifications I receive, but as you know, I ignore a fair amount of them too.

I have an EQ, I just don't wear it on my sleeve.

It's the ones you respond to which interest me.

 

[Diesel]

I have an EQ, I just don't wear it on my sleeve.

It's the ones you respond to which interest me.

No, it's much more than that. Look at your tagline for example: "Arrogant Asshole". You know exactly what you're doing, yet you feign ignorance when someone calls you the douche bag that you are. That's cowardice and the sloppiest attempt at online manipulation that I've seen since I joined social media in college.

 

[Dutch Uncle]

No, it's much more than that. Look at your tagline for example: "Arrogant Asshole".

You know exactly what you're doing, yet you feign ignorance when someone calls you the douche bag that you are.

That's cowardice and the sloppiest attempt at online manipulation that I've seen since I joined social media in college.

It cuts to the chase.

I hope so. I do understand why people like you call me a douchebag and other names. It's because some people are upset by my directness and refusal to exhibit little, if any, EQ.

Disagreed. This is why I believe you have a chip on your shoulder. You see attacks where there are none. You confuse directness with condescension. This is one reason why I previously pointed out both TA and miscommunication.

 

[Diesel]

It cuts to the chase.

I hope so. I do understand why people like you call me a douchebag and other names. It's because some people are upset by my directness and refusal to exhibit little, if any, EQ.

Disagreed. This is why I believe you have a chip on your shoulder. You see attacks where there are none. You confuse directness with condescension. This is one reason why I previously pointed out both TA and miscommunication.

At this point, I'm only scanning your posts, but something here caught my attention. I am regularly accused of being overly direct in an insensitive way. I think I make up for it with the rest of my EQ, so we have something in common and something vastly different in that regard.

 

[Dutch Uncle]

At this point, I'm only scanning your posts, but something here caught my attention. I am regularly accused of being overly direct in an insensitive way. I think I make up for it with the rest of my EQ, so we have something in common and something vastly different in that regard.

Nothing wrong with being direct as long as it's true.

Do you think it's wrong for me to go after the White Supremacists on this forum? I've very direct to them.

Do you think it's wrong for me to go after you for attacking straight, white, males? It's the same blind bigotry.