Actually I do learn from the past.  Once, I got myself involved with a conservative, and when I decided that I didn't want to be involved with him anymore, he said that if I didn't come to where he was he was going to shoot himself.  And I asked, well, what if I do come there?  And he said, then I'm gonig to shoot myself in front of you.  So I thought I'd rather skip the show, and didn't go.  (of course, he did not shoot himself, though, I can think of bigger wasts of bullets) And I have never dated a conservative again, though, honestly, that's not the sole reason.  So, if you think I don't learn from my mistakes, I'd say that shows how wrong YOU are.  lol
Anyway, the point is, I have no idea how extreme her proposal was, but I think anything she would come up with now, would be far simpler.