Canceled.2014.1
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It is funny that people post some pretty mean things around this place, but pets are over the top. I would argue that to be "torn up" over a pet is a hot over the top, but that is just me. Sort of like taking this place so seriously and claiming friendships on a message board. Seems sort of odd to me. But, hey I'd it has your knickers all in a twist, I am sorry that you were offended by my words
And I have argued that the meanness is a problem. That point aside, I appreciate your apology.
For some of us, pets are a big part of our lives. It is not a substitute for human friendships. It is an addition to our lives that makes it richer. I can say, without shame, that I have shed tears at the loss of every dog I have ever had. They are more than just an animal that lives with us. Much more.
As for claiming friendships, I do not "claim" anything. I have friends here. That I have not met these friends face to face changes nothing. They are still my friends. I recently had some crap go on in my personal life. Several of my friends here know about it. One has expressed concern and passed on some kind words. Another friend has contacted me several times to make sure I am doing ok. He offered sound advice and comfort. I am selective about who I call a 'friend'. But some people here are certainly my friends.
Again, I appreciate the apology.