is it fair to dox all men because a very small percentage are violent and abusive?
No men were doxxed by this site. The women talking about them already knew who they were.
Is it fair to make allegations against men, without them knowing about it? It happens more than you would think, and not just with men. Think about it, we talk about each other; it is just what humans do.
But, yes, this bothers me. But I also want women to be able to warn each other. My advice, be super nice to your exs.
no successful man complains about too many women hitting on them. NONE.
I did, and sometimes still do. It can get slightly disturbing.
What they do not complain about is having women hit on them for being successful. I have a friend who is a 5'3" very successful medical doctor. He dated some very beautiful women, and has been married for almost 20 years to a very beautiful woman. I never once heard him complain how much he wished women would judge him on his height, and not on him being a doctor. He did complain about me standing next to him and making him look even shorter.
of those two 'obvious' solutions, only one works and it's not the former.
If a woman is really not interested in you, it is a waste of your time trying to change her mind. Better to try to find a woman that is interested, or at least is not absolutely against being around you. Obsessing on one woman who does not like you is not healthy for either of you.
If you still cannot find a woman, maybe try upping your game. Still be you, but maybe you with a better haircut, and a nice shirt. Also try being educated, it will help you in life even beyond finding a woman. Most important, be kind, not just to the woman, but to everyone. Women will know that if you are a mean person, you will be a mean person to them.
why does 'incel' get thrown around whenever people expose reality about women?
And yet many of the rest of us are able to find women that care about us. Your "reality" might be that you are an incel, not that all women are evil.
